Grace1973 Posted August 4, 2009 Posted August 4, 2009 Hi all, first post so please bear with me! Basically I am in my mid-30s and have been single for about 7 months now. About a year ago, this guy contacted me through a social networking site who I hadn't seen / heard from since I was 19. I'd often thought about trying to track him down but wasn't sure if he'd remember me. We were at university together, although he was a couple of years older than me. We spent most of our time at loggerheads back then (but in a good way if that makes sense) - all my friends said it was so obvious that we fancied each other and that was why we argued. I denied it, obviously ... and nothing ever happened between us. We've kept in touch since he contacted me, and we seem to have an awful lot in common. He's sent me a photo and he hasn't changed much. In the past few weeks I've not been able to stop thinking about him - I feel as though I'm 15 again! Now we've decided to meet up in a few weeks. We're both single - should I try and take things further between us (I mean slowly - not there and then!) or just leave things as they are between us? If I should, how do I go about it? And how do I know if he feels the same way before I make a total fool of myself? Sorry for all the questions but I'm extremely rusty at all this! Thanks
postalservice Posted August 4, 2009 Posted August 4, 2009 Why don't you meet him and judge it from there. If he has an attraction towards you you should be able to tell, and vice versa. Probably the reason you feel 15 again is because the only way you can remember him is when you were that age - who's to say you'll even be attracted to him once yu meet him for real? I don't want to be negative - by all means meet him and see how it goes, you could be perfect for each other. All I'm saying is be prepared in case there isn't quite the spark you assume there will be. Good luck!!!
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