about my girlfriend

[diggade]

hey everyone im new to this site i just wanted people to tell me what should i do with my relationship i have alot to type so here goes take the time to read what i have to say so anyway i been talking to this girl for 5 months i like her alot and she is the first girl i ever told i love but im not sure im really in love but i have alot of feelings towards her. Anyway she been numerous relationships she been hurt alot and she made bad decisions in her life. she has cheated on people with out them knowing the longest relationship she been in is a year and that is not too long ago but what happen with that is that her ex boyfriend cheated on her 3times and she took him back but he ended it i think and to me i think she still love him cause she still have a picture of him and her in a teddy bear in a room and its noticeable to its on a shelf. But anyway she has had sex more than me and with at least 10 or more guys and half of them she just had sex with them just to have sex. she is spoiled and use to people giving her stuff and i really cant give her nothing cause im in school. Ok the story between me her is we first started out talkin for two months every thing was going good she come over my place and we do alot things with each others that we have not done with any other people but the problem was we was only just talking not going out. So she used to tell me all the time how much she wanted to be with and stuff but when i ask her whats the hold up and she tells me she not ready for a relationship i feel whats the point of telling me u want to be with me but u keep saying ur not ready. i did not understand that but it gets more interesting so two months go by and were still talking i ask her what i got to do to show u im here to stay and she just say she not ready. so i get fed up and tired of waiting on her because also she also waiting for another guy to come around that she liked but he stop showing interest and she took her chances with me. But so i tell her i dont want to talk to her no more because im tired of waiting on her and im leaving her for another girl and all of a sudden she says we go out now so i fall for it and later on when i go to her house were friends again because she says she not ready wtf i thought that was just fishy but i said ok so a week go by and i meet this girl and she tells me she is looking for a relationship and she have not had sex like that and i think to myself this is the girl i been waited for. so i tell chick that im tired her waiting on her and this time im really going to leave her for someone else and she starts crying and begs me to stay and not leave her and calls everyone on her phone just tell them what i done and she tells me this were going out and she says she was going to ask me out that same day and stuff so i came back to her and we go out. But things have not been the same we hardly see each other because im in school and when i come to see her at her sister house tio spend night she always leave me behind to go to the club wtf if u say u love someone and u have not seen them in awhile wouldn't u want to spend all your time with them while u can and not go to the club knowing your coming back in the morning and she says her friends had errands they had to run so im at her sister house bored while she is having fun and when she do come back we argue and she falls asleep thats crazy. then it gets worst it gets to a point when we have not seen each other for a month and 2 weeks and were not long distance i have my own place i tell her to come over for a weekend and she gives excuses and says she cant come and i never here her say she wants to come over its always me asking her too on top of that her phone is off and she barely calls me or we dont talk very long and she do have ways to reach me she just gives excuses. But she makes it over finally and thats last weekend and the vibe was way off things have changed with her. she was not on me like she use to be i tried to have sex she says she coming on her period normally im ok with it because we still make out and cuddle but now she says she dont like kissing no more cause she have not kiss in awhile it seem like she did not want to be on me normally when we sleep together she want me to hold her and she did not we spent the two days with each other arguing. She says im the one who's change and im always mad at her and i dont like her but i told her its cause how she acts now but she gets pissed off when im trying to break up with her. To me its seem like she is keeping in the back pocket like on reserve like someone she know she can talk to and when she not doing nothing she know who house she can go over too and it seems to me she never wanted to go out but she had to cause i was going to leave her but is she cheating or what i cant tell let me know what u guys think:lmao: and what i should do because im thinking of breaking up

[lorilynne]

Diggade, can i suggest you re-type or edit your post & break it up into paragraphs. it's a little long and hard to read as one solid paragraph.

[Thomas X Forever]

That's the longest paragraph I've ever seen, and I am writing a freaking novel.

 

First off, in regards to your overall well being, I suggest you learn how to press ENTER when typing.

 

Secondly, from what you've described, I can safely say she meets the criteria for Histrionic Personality Disorder but especially Borderline Personality Disorder. So what does that mean to you?

 

Run.

 

Girls who sleep around... to some just are called sluts, and that's that. But they're actually far more screwed up than the average mind thinks.

[boogieboy]

She lost interest in you long ago, thats why she doesnt want to kiss or have sex with you. But she doesnt want to tell you that because she knows you will not talk to her anymore, and she wants your company when she has nothing better to do. Cut her off immediatly, dont be her doormat. And then go back to english class and re-learn how to use sentence structure. Have you tried to re-read your own story???

[adamt]

Sorry i cant read that. need the edge of a piece of a4 paper to be able to read that. put some paragraphs in

[BeSteady]

She is gone likely you don't love here but want to fix her but she likes being that way so stop this run on sentence of a unhealthy relationship and take some time to learn about yourself and why you feel you need to take care of someone for them to love you then find a healthier girl.

[diggade]

im sorry if anyone cant read it because i was in such a hurry but thanks for the posting but i have one question y does she get mad when i want to break up