singlelife Posted August 4, 2009 Posted August 4, 2009 Well the hottie I was reall yinto was really going crazy trying to keep up with me. So I am the one who actually broke up with her. She was negelecting her business and was always on the road with me going to have fun and then she kept getting stressed because she hated the real world but had to deal with it. So I couldn't let her destroy her life and we talked about it. I miss her. We text some but I am sure it will fade. Well it's no problem getting women to screw being the bad boy but when you really love someone it puts a strain on things. I ain't changing so I guess this is how it is. I like being me. But for the women they loose control and start to change and burn out. Why do women let themselves get this way. Is there no middle ground
boldjack Posted August 4, 2009 Posted August 4, 2009 No Dude, there is no middle ground. All relationships will have to go somewhere. Either forward or back, nothing stays the same.
HsMomma Posted August 4, 2009 Posted August 4, 2009 Well it's no problem getting women to screw being the bad boy but when you really love someone it puts a strain on things. I ain't changing so I guess this is how it is. I like being me. Are you sure it's not your silver-tongued cleverness in turning a phrase or your sterling view on women that's allowed you to find so many women to "screw"?
dreamergrl Posted August 4, 2009 Posted August 4, 2009 IME, the 'bad boy' types, well, they seem to have this way about them, where the woman is constantly trying to be good enough for them, live up to expectations. It's not that we get burnt out, we just get tired of trying to be good enough, when there is no good enough. It's a mind trip. It's obvious that you feel you are perfect the way you are, but yet the pattern is you. You can't blame an entire gender, when you start becoming the common denominator.
Hkizzle Posted August 4, 2009 Posted August 4, 2009 Yeah it's easier to have sex with more women being the bad boy. You can't maintain a healthy long term relationship though. So depends what you want, quantity or quality. It is frustrating though to like a girl, treat her nice and she's not interested, and then she goes and picks a jerk that treats her like crap. Having been the nice guy and the bad boy. Yeah, bad boys are more attractive to more women. Understanding the psychology behind it and being a bit of both makes things a lot more successful.
Author singlelife Posted August 5, 2009 Author Posted August 5, 2009 Yeah it's easier to have sex with more women being the bad boy. You can't maintain a healthy long term relationship though. So depends what you want, quantity or quality. It is frustrating though to like a girl, treat her nice and she's not interested, and then she goes and picks a jerk that treats her like crap. Having been the nice guy and the bad boy. Yeah, bad boys are more attractive to more women. Understanding the psychology behind it and being a bit of both makes things a lot more successful. It's fun but man I do want a permanant girl one of these days. This one really hurt
Bayern Posted August 5, 2009 Posted August 5, 2009 It's fun but man I do want a permanant girl one of these days. This one really hurt Change lifestyle's a bit. It is part of your personality, but many choices are made within that. I don't have any examples, but you know yourself best.
2sure Posted August 5, 2009 Posted August 5, 2009 Is it just me or does anyone else find it difficult to visualize a guy with a "bad boy" image who also frequents a interpersonal relationship forum, regularly. Its all good but...quite conflicting. I think the problem is and that you hurt because...you just arent that bad.
dreamergrl Posted August 5, 2009 Posted August 5, 2009 Is it just me or does anyone else find it difficult to visualize a guy with a "bad boy" image who also frequents a interpersonal relationship forum, regularly. Its all good but...quite conflicting. I think the problem is and that you hurt because...you just arent that bad. Good call.
frustrated&sad Posted August 5, 2009 Posted August 5, 2009 It's fun but man I do want a permanant girl one of these days. This one really hurt It's all about compromise, my friend. You've got to be willing to make some changes in yourself if you want to have something steady.
frustrated&sad Posted August 5, 2009 Posted August 5, 2009 Is it just me or does anyone else find it difficult to visualize a guy with a "bad boy" image who also frequents a interpersonal relationship forum, regularly. Its all good but...quite conflicting. I think the problem is and that you hurt because...you just arent that bad. Oh, this is probably quite true! I like you, 2sure. Sounds like a bad boy facade who wants to have or has a good boy heart. True?
Author singlelife Posted August 10, 2009 Author Posted August 10, 2009 Whateva. Just wanted some advice
utterer of lies Posted August 10, 2009 Posted August 10, 2009 Oh, this is probably quite true! I like you, 2sure. Sounds like a bad boy facade who wants to have or has a good boy heart. True? At least he has figured out how to write like a gangsta, with bad spelling and little coherency. Whateva. Just wanted some advice Hardcore.
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