2sure Posted August 5, 2009 Posted August 5, 2009 You forgot, pointing the finger and nagging with a screeching voice. For Which?? The BS or the OW? The stereotypes of both fit the bill.
2sure Posted August 5, 2009 Posted August 5, 2009 ...but the blow up doll doesn't make a sound. There. Thats profound and something for all of us to make note of.
2sure Posted August 5, 2009 Posted August 5, 2009 Oh man, now I have to admit that I didnt read everything. I just liked the phrase. It sounded so Confucius- Like. I am more sarcastic than smart but: I took it to mean that men could have the option of giving up both types of women when faced with the stereotypes presented as well as the shrewish behavior exhibited in this thread. In fact I see the appeal myself. Nothing but a cool breeze and silence only broken by the occasional gentle squeaking of skin against plastic. Its deep.
tami-chan Posted August 6, 2009 Posted August 6, 2009 And, what if she was? What if that is how she sees the OW? I've read more than my share of mud slinging ridiculous statements on the OW/OM forum concerning the 'overweight', 'sexless', 'shrews', who are so irrational as to want to remain married to a cheater... When, ironically, they want to be involved with, be in love with, sleep with, and/or marry the very same cheater themselves. Wives are losers for wanting to stay with their husbands according to the OW. Then what, using that logic, is the OW for wanting the very same man? I swear, I'd love it if everyone had to use their own photograph as their avatar. I think it would shed an enormous amount of light and clarity to the posts. What if she did, well, then lets stop pretending there was no clear motive to malign the OW ( and in her case, rightfully so, apparently) ...people are defending foreal like she is spineless..or that she is "just innocently" posting it here. She knows this is inflammatory and therefore responses will be strong/emotional....
Mino Posted August 6, 2009 Posted August 6, 2009 Her mistake is that she forgets she loves like she masturbates … she pursues but doesn’t include anyone else but herself. HMM, no masturbation here... I know I had mm there too,
bentnotbroken Posted August 6, 2009 Posted August 6, 2009 Her mistake is that she forgets she loves like she masturbates … she pursues but doesn’t include anyone else but herself. HMM, no masturbation here... I know I had mm there too, And what has that gotten you? From your posts it seems it has gotten you a lot of pain and the inability to walk away from it? Maybe it is something that should be considered.
Mino Posted August 6, 2009 Posted August 6, 2009 And what has that gotten you? From your posts it seems it has gotten you a lot of pain and the inability to walk away from it? Maybe it is something that should be considered. bent, I did walk away,,,,, But that was a pretty stupid post, IMHO
OWoman Posted August 6, 2009 Posted August 6, 2009 every woman can be an OW if so inclined. Not every woman can be a wife. OTC. Any old hag can get M - there's no achievement in that. All you have to do is stop saying no when someone proposes.
bentnotbroken Posted August 6, 2009 Posted August 6, 2009 bent, I did walk away,,,,, But that was a pretty stupid post, IMHO Mino, you are still in major pain. You are still struggling to get him completely out of your life. That's what the post meant, nothing more.
Gamine Posted August 6, 2009 Posted August 6, 2009 OTC. Any old hag can get M - there's no achievement in that. All you have to do is stop saying no when someone proposes. Instead of sowing my wild oats in middle age I did it in my youth and well into my 30's and refused marriage throughout my 21 years of dating. Frankly, I don't remember a relationship I ever had that didn't result in a marriage proposal and I played the field. Wined and dined, pampered and spoiled. It takes no fortitude, commitment or depth of character to play around. It is simply just fun. However, it is lonely as well. I bought my own home when I was 28. It was a historic property that needed a lot of work... I rolled up my sleeves... and refinished floors, painted, landscaped, plastered... you name it. And I found myself. I was independent in every way. Marriage requires more than just showing up. You are wrong when you say that anyone can be married. While it is certain everyone can get a marriage license and go through the ceremony... being married in the right way takes guts. And not everyone has guts. I had to develop guts. I went from one suitor to the next like a butterfly and while the flattery poured to me like a fountain it was shallow and empty. There was no depth. I began to understand things that had previously eluded me. Marriage taught me how to grow up emotionally. However, I had to accept the challenge first. So, while it is true everyone can go through the legal process of becoming a married person, not everyone can be a true wife or husband. That takes integrity, honor, self respect and fortitude to do it right. Being an OW is easy. I know, I was one. I talk from both sides of this fence. I am neither BS or xOW I am simply a woman.
tami-chan Posted August 7, 2009 Posted August 7, 2009 But if OW would follow their OWN ADVICE AND STAY IN "THEIR FORUM" they would never have seen her thread. AND - if the opening post doesn't FIT anyone on this forum, why get all up in arms about it? Perhaps it hit too close to home for some...? Since you quoted me, are you saying I am upset with her post? I am not upset with it. Plus it looks like your are talking credentials here. I was a BS, so I know I can post on this thread ...(this is too silly...AS IF!)...what's yours?...honestly, donna, I think your pigtails are too tight!
Reggie Posted August 7, 2009 Posted August 7, 2009 OTC. Any old hag can get M - there's no achievement in that. All you have to do is stop saying no when someone proposes. Congrats on the wedding.
Reggie Posted August 7, 2009 Posted August 7, 2009 Since you quoted me, are you saying I am upset with her post? I am not upset with it. Plus it looks like your are talking credentials here. I was a BS, so I know I can post on this thread ...(this is too silly...AS IF!)...what's yours?...honestly, donna, I think your pigtails are too tight! I think of them as bilateral ponytails.
tami-chan Posted August 7, 2009 Posted August 7, 2009 I think of them as bilateral ponytails. Sorry, I didn't know you wear them....I'm Japanese, don't know English very well....so sue me, counselor. Ponytails, it is. Are you going to be following me around the site, Reg?
tami-chan Posted August 7, 2009 Posted August 7, 2009 Just for Reggie: http://asianposes.com/pose-6-pigtails/
NoIDidn't Posted August 7, 2009 Posted August 7, 2009 ... Any old hag can get M ... Is this a confession? Congrats on the wedding. Hilarious! :laugh:
Reggie Posted August 7, 2009 Posted August 7, 2009 Just for Reggie: http://asianposes.com/pose-6-pigtails/ Nice. Pigtails are okay with me, too. It is just my girls call them double ponytails cause they have long hair. I'm prety unsophisticated re the world of hairstyles, among other things.
OWoman Posted August 7, 2009 Posted August 7, 2009 Is this a confession? Naah, I didn't say bitter mistrustful old hag. Most of those don't. I'm special that way
Impudent Oyster Posted August 7, 2009 Posted August 7, 2009 . I believe it. I've witnessed too many W's (including posters on this board) who are constantly de-emphasizing the importance of having sex with their H's and making sure their H's are satisfied. These W's only have sex when THEY'RE in the mood... and they completely disregard their H's needs and desires. I know no man who would be happy under these conditions where not only does somebody else dictate when they will have sex, but also controlling how they SHOULD FEEL about not getting it as often as they'd like. It's no wonder why MM cheat. They're being starved. Just curious, does this go both ways? Do you believe husbands should make sure that their wives are always satisfied? I bet there are an awful lot of men who orgasm then roll over without making sure their wives have had one (or 3 or 5). Maybe those wives who refuse sex or who just aren't thrilled about "putting out" have a reason? Perhaps their husbands are disregarding their needs. Only 35 percent of the female population will orgasm through intercourse. Have you thought of that? Women who aren't psyched to have sex probably get nothing out of it, especially if their husbands aren't taking care of business, if you know what I mean. And if they're not making sure their wives are satisfied....the wives should just sleep with another man? Wow.
Impudent Oyster Posted August 7, 2009 Posted August 7, 2009 OMG... the OW in this post could have been replaced by W... and it would have been the same thing.. Written by a very very bitter BS... Maybe she should run to the nearest Chapters and get 'Chicken Soup for the Fat Azz Frigid Housewife' Of course, all angry BS's are frigid and have fat asses. It says so right in the bitter jealous OW handbook.
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