transamb0y Posted August 4, 2009 Posted August 4, 2009 me and my girlfriend have been having some arguments and it is about things we are not doing. she says she is trying and i am as well but the situation that has become our problem comes from another. she is living at home and so am i, but she does not get along very well with her parents. I love her and wnat to resolve our issues. she has different views on affection than i do and is not as affectionate as me. but at the same time she is never in the mood bc of her living situation. I have argued with her a few times before about this and it just the same argument over and we want to try to rsolve this. we have been dating for a little over a year and this has just started to recently occur. any ideas on how to resolve this issue. and i was thinking about talking to her about counciling. i love her and i know she loves me. we want to work this out
Hkizzle Posted August 4, 2009 Posted August 4, 2009 Having different views is a very natural part of relationships. You talk about it and try to deal with it. If you then still have different views then you either avoid discussing that part of the relationship and accept you have different views, or break up. But counciling? I should have been a shrink, there seems to be so much counciling work going around.
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