nab0610 Posted August 4, 2009 Posted August 4, 2009 Currently me and my girlfriend live in the same apartment complex...we dont live in the same apartment...Things just aren't working out with me and my current roommate so I told her a couple of weeks ago I told her that I was moving out and going down the road about a mile to live with 3 other guys well she got pretty upset and was like things are gonna be different between us blah blah blah...she accused me of moving to get away from her for some reason well I said look I have to do whats best for me I'm not trying to change anything between us...you should be happy for me because I'm going to have 3 new roommates who are pretty cool and who actually do things (my current roommate used to be my best friend, until he just started getting high constantly, and hanging out with my ex)...so basically I'm getting out of a bad situation...I promised her things wouldn't change between us...she was just kinda like OK whatever... well now yesterday she blew up on me and was like you don't even like me anymore...you don't want to have sex with me anymore (well we'd had sex twice in the last 5 days)...I came home on my lunch break at work to spend time with her...I took her to a movie...She accused me of lying when I said I'm tired and wanted to go to bed (said something along the lines of I was only tired because something was wrong)...I said thats bull**** I work 35 hours a week stocking shelves and I have two summer classes that meet every day for an hour and half each (she works at most 20 hours a week no classes)...and I had like 6 tests in the last 2 weeks for finals (sorry if I'm ****ING tired and want to go to sleep at 1 in the morning) she then accused me of not wanting to have sex with her and I said no its just because I'm tired...I also said theres more to a relationship then just sex do you think ppl that have been dating for a year or 5 years don't have periods of time when they have less sex for whatever reason...She then went off and was like **** you you don't even like me anymore and I said I do I like you alot...and she goes well ****ING ACT LIKE and runs off...haven't heard from her in 2 days now... I mean I don't feel like I've done anything wrong I'm 21 she's 22 I have bills to pay...her parents pay for her apartment...I know where she is she went home to her parents house which she was already planning to do...shes coming back Thursday during the day...I feel seriously wronged tho and I feel like she's being stupid an immature
boogieboy Posted August 4, 2009 Posted August 4, 2009 Apparently youre taking her for granted and shes a lil immature with calling you out on it, but she wants to know why. She might think youre cheating on her if she thinks the sex isnt as good as it used to be. So youre going to have to show her that youre still interested in her. You will have to push past her annoying you, and put in a real good effort to show her that you are still into her. If you dont she will walk. If you dont WANT to do that, or you dont want to make the time to do that, then do her a favor and break it off with her.
DustySaltus Posted August 4, 2009 Posted August 4, 2009 She wanted you to move in with her..that's what precipitated all of this. You move in with a bunch of dudes instead of her. She clearly is very into you and clingy. Small changes become really big changes with her because everything is under a microscope. If you really care about her you need to plan a nice romantic evening together to reinforce her feelings and yours. I think she is looking for secuirty with you and you either need to show her that or end it, if you really do care about her.
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