torranceshipman Posted August 3, 2009 Posted August 3, 2009 This is for female LS'ers: I highly recommend multiple dating! I started doing this a few weeks ago (I never thought it'd suit me in a million years), and the moment I started this new approach, I have had SO much fun, been so chilled with my dating life, been more objective in how I view the guys I date, and seem to be much cooler which guys seem to respond very keenly to. And if a guy is flaky I don't lose sleep over it, I just forget him as there are other more interesting guys always in the picture. My personal rule is that nothing gets past the kissing stage - if it does, the guy needs to be happy for us to be exclusive, and I need to be, too. Obviously I haven't got to that point with anyone yet as I've only been doing this for a few weeks! So just lots of lovely flirting at the moment-really good fun, and this last weekend...was one of the most romantic I have ever had, with a really lovely new guy I just met! A real gent, and very good company. Could be a coincidence but I've not had such fun dating times in AGES! So I say give it a try if dating is currently driving you mad
alexlakeman Posted August 8, 2009 Posted August 8, 2009 I do the same but with women.. I am dating three women now.. The only problem, is $$, any time we go out it could be $40-$80 .... it adds up , why I am always broke, lol... So, yes, I agree, if one doesn't work out, there is another woman... and if one is busy, there's another choice...
Lizzie60 Posted August 8, 2009 Posted August 8, 2009 I also like variety.. But you seem to take it a notch more serious than I do.. because you don't pass the kissing stage.... methink you will do this just for so long.. cause you will fall for a guy.. even before the next stage.. and you might get hurt in the long run... It is doable.. but from what I read here.. you are in danger of getting hooked by another player..
You'reasian Posted August 8, 2009 Posted August 8, 2009 I also like variety.. I think variety likes you too
You'reasian Posted August 8, 2009 Posted August 8, 2009 You know him? People say he's the spice of life! .....but not quiet the life of the party lol. Are you ok with that?
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