Escaflowne Posted August 3, 2009 Posted August 3, 2009 Ok, so here it is. This girl i like, likes both me and my room mate. My room mate also has feelings for her because they dated in the past, about 2 years ago. For about 4 years, we have been lying to each other about how we feel about each other. about a month and a half ago, we were drinking at my apartment (she had been invited over by my room mate to hang out, and he went to bed and me and her kept drinking a little bit). She then kissed me, which was a surprise to me, but yet i was wanting it. I have tried to talk with her about it in the past, but either my room mate or another one of my friends whom she dated briefly in the past, were around. Also 3 years ago, i dated one of her best friends, and that relationship is non-existent, as in i could care less if i saw her and probably likewise. Recently, my room mate broke up with his g/f and found out he caught something from her. She told me a couple of weeks ago, that they could not be anything more than friends because of that. I really like her and feel like it has great possibility to be a long-term relationship and possibly more. Should i still try and pursue this relationship or call it a mistake the night we kissed and try to forget the whole thing? Any help and advice would be appreciated.
dreamergrl Posted August 3, 2009 Posted August 3, 2009 Regardless of the fact of how she feels, I think you should make it okay with your roommate, especially if the two of you are friends. It sounds like it could be a very messy triangle if you don't work it out with everyone. Also.. I could be a bit off here... but does it strike you as weird that she's dated another friend, obviously had some chemistry with your roomie, and now is on to you?
colosseum Posted August 4, 2009 Posted August 4, 2009 I have tried to talk with her about it in the past, but either my room mate or another one of my friends whom she dated briefly in the past, were around. Also 3 years ago, i dated one of her best friends, and that relationship is non-existent, as in i could care less if i saw her and probably likewise. Recently, my room mate broke up with his g/f and found out he caught something from her. She told me a couple of weeks ago, that they could not be anything more than friends because of that. Sorry man but to be honest, sounds like you're not on the top of her priority list. You might've been wanting to see her for 4 years but if she hasn't responded that should be one sign. And secondly, so she no longer can be more than friends with your roomy, so now she's turning to you? Straight up, sounds to me like you're not being treated very highly (dare I say "used"). I'd say be tough with her, but of course I know really nothing about this.
on_point Posted August 4, 2009 Posted August 4, 2009 i say screw her if you're looking for a relationship.. she sounds like she likes drama.. and if she kissed you while you were both drinking, how much merit could that possibly have? dude i say if you're looking to have some fun, then go for it, but if you're gonna get emotionally involved, pass.
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