Unsure about her...

[gats_b]

So i knew this girl back in highschool, 6 years ago.

Now I'm going into my final year in university and she's going into her 1st year. We go to different schools, about an hour apart. We recently started talking again through facebook and eventually decided to just chill and hang out last week. Things were alright, we just met up for dinner... then she showed me her place. Felt pretty good about the night in a sense that we were interested in eachother. As i left, i gave her a kiss on the cheek and she did the same right after that *woohoo We kept texting non-stop for a week; sounded like she was excited to see me!

 

The second time we met, i only time for a movie and a quick dinner. It was kinda awkard to do nethin' at the theatre...since we watched Bruno.. but nonetheless.. I managed to have my arms around her and get close. Again, we back to her place to chill for a bit.. but only this time, i felt like the "fire" kinda died out. As i was saying good night, she gave me a hug.. and then i looked into her eyes at a close distance...*wanting to give her a kiss on the lips*.. then she gave me another long hug. I don't know..kinda' feels like she isn't actually interested but a friendship with me?

What do you guys think??? She IS going to come visit me on my birthday in 2 days, but...I kinda feel like the candle is melting down...

[SoulSearch_CO]

Sucker. You should have kissed her. If she was turned off at the idea of kissing you, she would have pulled away - not pulled you closer (for the hug). She was probably just nervous about the thought of initiating. Don't let the moment slip by again - go for it!

[gats_b]

.....daaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaamn it!!!!!!!!!!!

ok..thanks for this LOL!

[Athena]

Take the initiative! If she didn't want it, she would let you know. You shouldn't second-guess yourself... if the mood is right, go for it.