alli02 Posted August 3, 2009 Posted August 3, 2009 why does a guy kiss you and make out with you and do other x rated stuff excluding sex at the end of a date and then back off??? why even bother doing anything in the first place???
Author alli02 Posted August 3, 2009 Author Posted August 3, 2009 sorry this guy is just driving me crazy
Citizen Drawn Posted August 3, 2009 Posted August 3, 2009 Could be a lot of reasons for it. However, it's pretty hard to answer your question unless you give more background information.
frustrated&sad Posted August 3, 2009 Posted August 3, 2009 I agree with CD. Perhaps a bit more background?
Author alli02 Posted August 3, 2009 Author Posted August 3, 2009 i posted it earlier...its my only other thread
2sunny Posted August 3, 2009 Posted August 3, 2009 i would say be patient. allow him a chance to initiate contact with you - then respond. he said he was going to be busy - so he's probably busy. if he kissed you and things heated up - that's a natural progression if you're interested in each other. i would say sit back and relax and let him set the pace. he'll be in touch... and when he does don't seem so anxious... it will make him want you a bit more.
Author alli02 Posted August 3, 2009 Author Posted August 3, 2009 how long do i wait before i give up on him?
2sunny Posted August 3, 2009 Posted August 3, 2009 why are you giving up on him when it hasn't barely started? fyi - if you keep all the details to ONE thread - people are more likely to help you instead of having to track down the details from various other ones you've started.
westernxer Posted August 3, 2009 Posted August 3, 2009 Perhaps he didn't have a condom and didn't want to knock you up?
Author alli02 Posted August 3, 2009 Author Posted August 3, 2009 well i had started a thread earlier but didnt get much response so i started a new one
2sunny Posted August 3, 2009 Posted August 3, 2009 i read that several times now. i know you have another thread. may i ask how old you both are... that may help. also, what exactly did he say was it that would keep him so busy and for how long?
Hkizzle Posted August 3, 2009 Posted August 3, 2009 why does a guy kiss you and make out with you and do other x rated stuff excluding sex at the end of a date and then back off??? why even bother doing anything in the first place??? Because unlike many women that won't start a relationship with a guy unless they are interested, many men will pursue a woman they are not interested in simply for the sex. Sex is more of a physical act for many men, not all but many, and if enough to drive those men to chase a woman just for sex.
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