SadieLadie Posted August 3, 2009 Posted August 3, 2009 PLEASE HELP!!My boyfriend and i have been together a little over a year, and recently moved in together, not really for romantic reasons but more because his place was closer to my school, i'm 18 and he's 25 and although i am younger i often feel like the mature responsible one, i am working very hard to get my bachelors and become a Registerd Nurse, he hasnt had a jod for almost 6 months now and hes not even looking anymore, hes a musician, and a good one but it seems like he dosent understand that he needs some sort of backup, i dont want to end up supporting him forever, he has jokingly said how he will be the stay at home dad and that scares me to death its not the future i have in mind for myself. also he is soo bothersome sometime, he just pokes fun at me, he's always making fun, and hardly ever compliments me anymore,he bites hard for no reason , and pinches, abd makes fun of the way i say certain words and i know hes joking but its really annoying sometime, hes like a 2nd grader who makes fun of a girl becuase he likes her, i mentioned this to him several times that he cant just be mean to me and then kiss me when he wants to have sex, aside from that, he dosent know how to be romantic, he'll just get a dopey smile on his face and start kissing my or unzipping his pants!! not appealing, i tried to incourage him ot be more romantic with me by showing him one night he came home from band practice i lit candles all over the room and had some music playing i gave him a massage and then made passionate love to him, and he loved it, but i dont think he would ever think about doing the same for me, and it breaks my heart. anyway, i dont know what to do i love him to death, hes a very sweet man, and i know he means well, but i just dont know if he will ever shape up and be the man i need.
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