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Mixed signals, not sure what to think..


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I've been flirting with this woman at work for the last 5 months, a bit too long for a flirt I guess.. but I'm still not sure of her intentions. Most of my doubt comes from the fact that she isn't quite available..

Last weekend tough, I pratically got confirmation that she feels something for me, the way she looked/stared at me with that "puppy" look on her face. I believe she couldn't possibily have done more without words. I even feel her jealousy sometimes when I'm talking to some female co worker.

We know love when we see it but I'm confused because sometimes she ignores me as if she feels absolutely nothing and I'm afraid this might have too much to do with her existing relationship. Or perhaps she's just pissed off that I haven't gone further yet and acts that way?

Anyway important question is, would you show genuine interest to a man you simply saw as an opportunity to have fun? what other signs can I pick on to know if she's looking for more than just sex? there are plenty of single girls out there, I don't want to get involved with someone unavailable just for that.

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What is it that you are looking for from her?

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Shes not looking for anything more than for you dto make a move. Thats what women do is give you the eyes so they dont have to risk the rejection. Some will make big moves, some wont. So you have to take the plunge and do something. Dont worry about what shes thinking, say something to attract her to you. youre the guy, you have to assume that you have to do all the work and take all the risk. You wanna find out if she will leave her relationship for you? Take a chance.

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What is it that you are looking for from her?

 

Well I'm in love so basically I'm looking for the same, don't want to get my nose into someone else's relationship for less.

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there are plenty of single girls out there, I don't want to get involved with someone unavailable just for that.

 

Key word being "single", according to your post this girl is not.

 

Plenty of single girls out there to fall in love with..

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