jolie Posted August 2, 2009 Posted August 2, 2009 Hi, My boyfriend and I have been dating for the past 9months and we've beeing almost living together. We had awesome sex all along and I could see he was really really into it and he was ALWAYS so turned on to see me or even touch me. But over the past few weeks I see that he's just not into it. He does get turned on and is really hard but he cant seem to orgasm. Its a little frustrating for me because I feel he doesnt find me attractive anymore. When i asked him, he said it was the divorce stress and that was affecting it. But I dont think that is it, becuase that stress was always there and knowing him (he loves to have sex) ....I dont know what to do. If he's bored with me, I dont want to get insulted everytime. Could it really be stress? I love him and I enjoy being with him. Please advise.
SoulSearch_CO Posted August 3, 2009 Posted August 3, 2009 Need more details. How long was he married? How long ago did the divorce occur? Or is he still going THROUGH the divorce? What has changed in regards to the divorce situation? Are their children involved? How long has it been since he was separated from his XW? What was the reason for the divorce (I ask because it could be pertinent as to who left whom)?
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