SuperHands Posted August 2, 2009 Posted August 2, 2009 I'm slightly struggling with a situation at the moment with someone that I feel very very close to. We have been friends for a year but I would say i have feelings for her stronger than friendship, but not enough to be lovers. I enjoy her company more than anyone i've met and would quite happily spend all my time with her. At the moment I seem to have alot of urges (when I'm around her) to get physical. I know she likes me too and would most likely be happy to be more than friends. However i know that she is not right for me simply because i hum and har about it all the time. In my opinion if I was really into her, i wouldn't be sat here typing this. But I still can't deny the impact she's having on me. However, I really really want to be friends with her. How do I focus on the friendship and keep these urges to get physical at bay? Is it possible, or should I prepare to let this one go?
boogieboy Posted August 2, 2009 Posted August 2, 2009 You might have to let it go either way. These urges will only get stronger, you cant keep them at bay for long. If she is into you, then just being friends is kind of torture for her. Or one of 4 things can happen: She could find someone else, which might make you want her more, She could find someone else and its a relief to you. You could take a chance of blowing up the friendship and take action. You could run away now before anythine else happens. One of these 4 will happen, so you could make it your choice as to what it could be.
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