Sunday02 Posted August 2, 2009 Posted August 2, 2009 I'm not sure why I need to know but here's my problem. I'm frequently around someone who's 15 years younger than me. Because I either ignore signs or just dont know what they are I'm confused on how he is towards me vs others. When we talk he smiles, there's eye contact (but that may be simply he's not rude) asks for hugs and will tease about how I'm not too old for him. Our recent conversation was how he talks to me as opposed to others. His reply was he feels comfortable with me. I asked if he liked me and he said yes smiled and looked down. Because of the age difference I'm not sure if he's playing, serious, aiming for something else. My biggest problem (well not really) I'm married and finding this a bit exciting.
postalservice Posted August 5, 2009 Posted August 5, 2009 i think you need to get a grip. You've not said what age he is, so whether he's 15 years younger than you or not, that wouldn't matter if he was say 30 and you were 55. It matters a lot more if he's 18 and you're 33 for example. You're married anyway, so the question of acting on it should be out of the equation, and if it's not then you should be re-evaluating it and thinking about that rather than this other guy.
Teslacoil Posted August 5, 2009 Posted August 5, 2009 Oh, the only thing that would make this better would be if he was one of your kids' friends.
imonyourside Posted August 5, 2009 Posted August 5, 2009 yeah um what exactly do you need to know? if someone 15 years younger than you has a crush on you? is it really worth destroying your whole marriage? I know it might seem exciting now, bringing you back to your youth, but snap out of it - act your age, and stop wondering about some little kid. This is immature as $hit.
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