electricvanilla Posted August 2, 2009 Posted August 2, 2009 This guy I have been seeing sent me an email telling me how I have inspired him to be a better person and he also apologized of his childish ways and admitted that the way he is, falls short of how great I am. How nervous I make him. Blah blah blahhh *I don't know if that is all BS, but I guess time will tell* He told me to stop by his place whenever, since it's been 3 weeks since we have hung out. We discussed which day...So, I went by his place....twice...but he was not home -His cousin answered the door. *His cell phone is currently off, so I couldn't contact him* But, I mean...if you say 'drop by whenever' I take that as you are going to be in all day!! & He has not called me. I am pretty sure his cousin told him I stopped by! && if she didn't he should still call me anyway because he knew I was coming and since he was not there…Could’ve realized I may have stopped by while he was out! Am I right to be mad by this?? Or am I overreacting? I know he feels intimidated/nervous by me...but is it possible he is so much that he purposely went out so he wouldn't confront me after his heartfelt.ish message? [FONT=Calibri][sIZE=3] [/sIZE][/FONT]
Island Girl Posted August 2, 2009 Posted August 2, 2009 This guy I have been seeing sent me an email telling me how I have inspired him to be a better person and he also apologized of his childish ways and admitted that the way he is, falls short of how great I am. How nervous I make him. Blah blah blahhh *I don't know if that is all BS, but I guess time will tell* If what he said was true then it wouldn't be three weeks since you have seen him. And he would have been by your house not just flippantly said "stop by whenever". To me, if a guy said that it would mean I hadn't sparked enough interest so the last thing I'd do is make seeing me more convenient for him. HE have to put some effort in, commit to a date and time, and we'd do something together not just hang out at home. That is...if I really liked him. If I didn't and it was three weeks since I'd seen him I'd have moved on already.
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