lucy9216 Posted August 1, 2009 Posted August 1, 2009 My fiance left me about 4 months ago. I have been completely devistated over it and has been really difficult to move on and accept it. I was recently in contact with the guy I dated before my fiance and we agreed to meet up tonight. In my mind I am only thinking of hanging out with an old friend because before I even dated this guy we were friends for years, but our relationship together was very dramatic and hurtful. It has been 6 years since I have seen him. My intentions are only to meet up with an old friend but he was really hurt when I left him and I am worried he may be thinking there will be something more that may turn out from us hanging out. I am also worried as to what I may do myself because I am at a somewhat vulnerable point in my life and if anything were to happen I know nothing more could develop with him because he would be a rebound and I don't want to hurt him again or ruin the friendship I would like to rebuild with him after it was destroyed from us dating each other. Should I meet him tonight? or just meet up with my usual saturday night crowd?
gopher Posted August 1, 2009 Posted August 1, 2009 I say meet up with him, and at least you won't have to wonder if you could have restored the friendship.
SoulSearch_CO Posted August 1, 2009 Posted August 1, 2009 I say go meet up with him. But keep it in a very public place - like a casual diner. Don't keep talking on the way to the cars, linger in the parking lot, get in the same car together - those would all be no-no's if you don't want anything to develop romantically.
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