dreamergrl Posted August 1, 2009 Posted August 1, 2009 So last night I went out with a few friends, after a crappy day of my roommate finally getting out, and dumping all my food into the sink leaving it to rot... I went out with some people I met through my psycho ex roomie. Only they aren't psycho, and they don't even like him. One of the guys I've been slightly attracted to. Last night I decided to start flirting. However, through out the night he ended up going through some tough stuff. Amazingly enough, I think I was able to pass on some wisdom I learned on here. I crashed at their house, but I stayed up late talking with the cutie. It was time to crash out, he offered me the big couch that he normally sleeps on, and he made a spot for himself on the floor. I go to use the bathroom before closing my eyes, when I came back, he goes... "You can lay next to me if you want". So of course I do. Like, in a flash! Right away he puts his arms around me, and cuddles me. It felt really freaking good. I was all smiles. We laid there, talking about anything that came up. Conversation was real easy, and there was something that just made me feel good about the whole situation. He says to me, when I laid down next to him, "Thank you for being so nice to me." I didn't know what to say, I've never been thanked for being nice before. He said again later. He seemed to be very sincere too. Of course the kissy and make out stuff eventually happens, then more talk and conversation. Then he's got his hands on my waist, and he looks at me and says, "yes or no" LOL I'm sure you all get what he was getting at. And while maybe I shouldn't have done it just yet, but given it's not the first time I've met him or anything, I went with the flow, with what felt right. I don't recall ever being with a guy who was more worried about holding back so I could be satisfied. Although, it was short lived, but he tired so hard, it was so cute. Then, to my surprise there was more cuddling, talking, and all. I didn't feel one bit pressured about having sex, nor did I feel like that was all I was there for. Today, before I left, he mentioned that he'd like to hang out today, that he's got to study for an exam, but he'll see what he can do. While, last night I was the one who brought up hanging out today, I liked the fact that he reinforced it, and brought it up again. I'm not over thinking things. I'm basking in happiness. I feel like I did something right last night. And I'm not worried about what's next, if he'll call, or whatever. Not that I don't want him too, but I'm not worried. I feel good about it all. It's amazing to have this experience and not to feel the anxiety. And I can't explain it, but something just felt so amazing about it all. I'm not jumping ahead, but it was a great experience for me.
2sunny Posted August 1, 2009 Posted August 1, 2009 sweeeeet! i love it! can't wait to see what fun is in store for you on this one.... keep us posted! woooo hooooo
Author dreamergrl Posted August 2, 2009 Author Posted August 2, 2009 Yeah, we'll see how it goes. I'm keeping my expectations at bay. I didn't hear from him yesterday, but that's okay. I'm not worried
Jimmy's_Brother Posted August 2, 2009 Posted August 2, 2009 I don't recall ever being with a guy who was more worried about holding back so I could be satisfied. Although, it was short lived, but he tired so hard, it was so cute. Does this mean what I think it does? A minute-man is somehow adorable?
Author dreamergrl Posted August 2, 2009 Author Posted August 2, 2009 Does this mean what I think it does? A minute-man is somehow adorable? Well a minute would be an understandment - but it was kinda cute
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