Author RedDevil66 Posted September 11, 2009 Author Posted September 11, 2009 this poor kid never had a chance. his mom is an addict. He dad was an alcoholic. you hate him. how is he supposed to behave. no one likes him. it is so messed up. and don't even get me started about your BF masturbating in bed with the boy. no wonder he is screwed up! you obviously resent his kids. Why are you with him? you got that right. They do not have a chance. I wanted to help, I actually have a medical background and currently in medical school (yes a mid 40 old lady changing her life's direction), so it's built in me to want to help others. I truly want to help, but need to sift through my anger first. No one likes this boy, that is true. It's how he acts out, no one can stand being around him. I know my Bf's ex wife's father confronted them about getting the boy some help. He's the ONLY sane one in this family. He's actually not in contact with my BF's ex wife (his own daughter) and any of the family because he told my BF, "they're all so toxic" He tries to see the kids every 4-5 months, but he feels his hands are tied, so he stays away. When I asked my BF is he was masturbating while his son slept, he was so not shocked about it. He thought that was ok b/c they had to share a bed. When I told my BF is was sick, he cried and said he didn't think there was harm since his son was dead asleep. ugh! I left him and told him when he got a bigger place so his kids could have their own beds, I would come back He got a bigger place in weeks. He TRULY didn't see the harm? wow! Why am I with him? The burning question in my own mind. Well because he has a ton of good qualities, I had two failed very long term relationships before this and I guess somewhere deep down, I want to fight for this? Not sure if it's because I just want to avoid all the pain of another break up or if I truly care for him I've become confused. We go to couples therapy next week for the first time. I need to figure out and find the strength to made a decision on staying and fighting or leaving
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