enchanted771 Posted July 31, 2009 Posted July 31, 2009 Looks like i am back to the drawing board after a BAD experience with a liar! its one thing if your dating more than one woman, but its quite another thing to be dishonest! and the worst part? i let him into my life, which he really made me think he wanted to be a part of. Cooked him dinner, showed him my childhood pics, everything! he seemed so sincere, and probably the most pathetic, smooth liar i have ever met!
pandagirl Posted July 31, 2009 Posted July 31, 2009 Girl, same thing happened to me. Except, I guess the guy I was dating wasn't technically "lying" -- just withholding the truth!
Author enchanted771 Posted July 31, 2009 Author Posted July 31, 2009 Is that what he told you? well, at least he told you. This guy wont even answer my text. I am this close to sending him another one, and it wont be nice! I know he probably wont come out, and be a man, and tell me the truth, he will just ignore my text. Because, after all, it doesnt matter, because he has others on the backburner.
stepka Posted August 1, 2009 Posted August 1, 2009 Yah, I just got rid of one of those. We were on our 4th date and I was really thinking that we might be headed for a relationship and then he told me that I'm not the one, but he'd be happy to have a FWB relationship and then pouted and took me home when I said I wasn't interested. He is 49 yo. What a d?ck. I didn't see it coming, but one way to weed out the players is to not sleep w/ them too soon, though even that isn't foolproof b/c some of them like the chase. Honestly, there are so many variations on players that it's hard to say how to weed them out, but I'd say if they're still really active on their profile after you start dating them, it means they're not committing to you.
bac Posted August 1, 2009 Posted August 1, 2009 It is very easy. You just need to get to know them well. First, you need to meet one good player personally and learn his ways. Then, you need to buy a few books from amazon.com (for example, Clink "the laidguid", "how to get the most beautiful women in bed", "what men want". The books is textbooks how to be a player and they have comprehensive description of players so if you meet them in reality you can recognize them easily.
Trialbyfire Posted August 1, 2009 Posted August 1, 2009 bac, it sounds like he was looking for a more serious relationship, someone to fall in love with or get that infatuated feeling from. He's saying there's nothing wrong with you and that the two of you had a good time together but it's time to move on.
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