milvushina Posted July 31, 2009 Posted July 31, 2009 This was the title of a thread I posted in Oct. 2007 about my friend who just found out his wife was pregnant. He had married her even though he did not really like her. He always told my H and I that he didn't like her, wasn't attracted, didn't think it would last long. Now they have a 1 yr old baby. My friend called me last night at 10:30 and said that she was kicking him out and he didn't have anywhere to go and wanted to stay with me. I was wavering because he started to cry, but my H said absolutely not. He stole his wife's medicine once and wandered off and got arrested. Also, he broke into his ex-gf's mom's house and stole things. We don't want him in our house, and since we've moved since we saw him, we don't really even want him to know where we live. We don't want him around our 1 yr old baby. He has been my friend since we were in junior high and has had to move in with me many times because he lost a job, couldn't pay rent, etc. This is the first time I have told him no. When my H and I had trouble giving him a firm answer his wife asked to talk to me and told me it was really awkward and she was sorry they called and that she'd let him stay one more night. Now I don't know if I'll ever really talk to him again. His wife has been divorced twice, soon to be 3 times, and now she has two little children all by herself, and it makes me sad. He's 32 years old and acts like an idiot. Do you think that we were too harsh? My H says that he can sleep on the street and I should change my number. I have to agree I don't want him around my baby or my jewelery, but do you think it's harsh to stop talking to him? He probably needs a friend right now.
Davey McG Posted August 1, 2009 Posted August 1, 2009 You can't save him - you have no responsibility to this loser, unless you think that this guy who has repeated screwed up if worth endangering your house and baby.
seibert253 Posted August 1, 2009 Posted August 1, 2009 Write him off. Not to sound harsh, but he's a loser and thief. There's absolutely no reason for him ever to be in you home.
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