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Am I so ugly that I can never marry?


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I don't see what looks doctored about it. I too am excellent at Photoshop, and I'm actually certified in the latest version.

 

Shadowplay -- is that you in your avatar, or David Bowie as a young man? hm

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Was lazy mounting my tripod, to tired and to sad.

And no, im not swimming, it's extremly hot during the nights here. Fan's out of order. Lazy atitude all over at this hour

 

Profile mug.

 

http://tinyurl.com/m2fo8e

 

Thats not a profile shot!!! We can hardly see your nose and face proportions -- just your neck!!

Don't be lazy, go get that tripod!

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Was lazy mounting my tripod, to tired and to sad.

And no, im not swimming, it's extremly hot during the nights here. Fan's out of order. Lazy atitude all over at this hour

 

Profile mug.

 

http://tinyurl.com/m2fo8e

 

Can you post a full profile shot?

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Was lazy mounting my tripod, to tired and to sad.

And no, im not swimming, it's extremly hot during the nights here. Fan's out of order. Lazy atitude all over at this hour

 

Profile mug.

 

http://tinyurl.com/m2fo8e

 

Well that's more like three quarters. Not a true SIDE view of your FACE. Although I got an intimate view of your ear-hole.

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Shadowplay -- is that you in your avatar, or David Bowie as a young man? hm

:eek::eek::eek: I thought Shadow was a female.

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:eek::eek::eek: I thought Shadow was a female.

 

No, that's me. The resemblance is uncanny, no?

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:eek::eek::eek: I thought Shadow was a female.

 

oh, okay... I don't know... just saw the avatar...

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No, that's me. The resemblance is uncanny, no?

 

Is it Really You?

 

Yes, a good resemblance... good make up too! Do you put it on regularly or just for the shot?

I like your almost-scowl, heh heh

How old are you

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Is it Really You?

 

Yes, a good resemblance... good make up too! Do you put it on regularly or just for the shot?

I like your almost-scowl, heh heh

How old are you

 

 

Hey now..this aint Match.com. (smack) Concentrate on the OP!! :laugh:

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As best as I could. It's really hard to take a profile shot all by yourself!

My proportions seem to be ok though, forehead to big though.

http://tinyurl.com/knzqge

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Hey now..this aint Match.com. (smack) Concentrate on the OP!! :laugh:

 

LOL!!! Not for ME (I am married)... I am just curious... plus... while we are waiting for his Lordship to set up his tripod... idle banter...

 

So -- Shadowplay, is that a natural cleft or did you take advantage of your relationship with plastic surgeons on advising their customers... lol

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Is it Really You?

 

Yes, a good resemblance... good make up too! Do you put it on regularly or just for the shot?

I like your almost-scowl, heh heh

How old are you

 

is gullible is written on your ceiling?

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As best as I could. It's really hard to take a profile shot all by yourself!

My proportions seem to be ok though, forehead to big though.

http://tinyurl.com/knzqge

 

Yeah I see about the chin balancing out the forehead, etc... but... Lord, really, there is a lot you can do otherwise... as another poster suggested, clear your complexion up...

And shave, and grow your hair out, and work on your confidence. Lots of people get married.

How tall are you? (you do know that the girls in Holland are mostly tall, lol... I loved buying shoes there... my size foot was considered 'average' there... lol)

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is gullible is written on your ceiling?

 

Yeah, you got me...

 

.... meanie...

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Athena, im 1.73.

 

I agree, I will take your suggestions. Lots of people get married indeed. But with average looks! I mean, let's be serious ... I don't present ANY physical attraction at all.

Sure, confindence is good for me. And for others I guess, however, do you actually think it's gonna tilt in my favor something? I doubt it ...

The way I see it is I have 3 options ...

1. I could either drop everything right now and join a buddhist convent.

2. I could go to work for a year or so, and probably stop thinking about women (hard to do ... ) and live out with frustrations.

3. I could "buy" a wife ... but that would hurt my ego.

 

I would say number one made more sense at this hour.

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As for your pic, your face needs some basic grooming. Make your brows more narrow like a nice line. Wash your hair daily and change your haircut.

I am not a stylist but it might be better if you have a longer haircut to cover most of your forehead. Go to gym and eat more fat fast food to gain weight.

And for your eyes, wear stylish glasses which will fit your face. Glasses give reflection so it is difficult to see the eyes.

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Athena, im 1.73.

Somebody convert? What does that mean?

 

Sure, confindence is good for me. And for others I guess, however, do you actually think it's gonna tilt in my favor something? I doubt it ...

Yeah. :rolleyes: You're gonna go far with THIS attitude.

 

The way I see it is I have 3 options ...

1. I could either drop everything right now and join a buddhist convent....

I would say number one made more sense at this hour.

Then do it. You seem intent on the answer. Do what makes you happy. People here are trying to help. What's the point of asking for help if you're going to ignore every single piece of hard-thought-up advice and come to your own conclusion? Perhaps you could fine peace there. Which could serve you more than anything right now.

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Somebody convert? What does that mean?

 

 

Yeah. :rolleyes: You're gonna go far with THIS attitude.

 

 

Then do it. You seem intent on the answer. Do what makes you happy. People here are trying to help. What's the point of asking for help if you're going to ignore every single piece of hard-thought-up advice and come to your own conclusion?

 

No i'm not going to get far with THAT attitude. I am aware of that.

Look, I study genetics, i'm not an idiot. Sure, frustrated, but I still can think clearly. All your advice is extremly helpfull, and obviously I will put it into action. Question is, without sugarcoating ... my chances are really minimal. Im looking at my future, sure, I can't know what happends. But with so minimal chances ... kinda demoralizing!

Yeah, I have a hobby. Everyone has one ... so what, it keeps me occupied. I really would not want into those room-mate stuff in Netherlands, probably im gonna be the guy who plays all day with photoshop. But, I'd do it at least for a year, experience probably could not hurt at all.

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Malkor, for those of us in the US trying to convert from metric to ****ed up...what is 1.73? Is that meters, or something? Cause I could say that I'm 67. But does that help you in trying to convert?

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Malkor, for those of us in the US trying to convert from metric to ****ed up...what is 1.73? Is that meters, or something? Cause I could say that I'm 67. But does that help you in trying to convert?

 

1.73 meters.

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Is anyone too ugly to be married? Based on what I've seen so far, there doesn't seem to be much hope in this situation. There could be some changes made, but I don't know. :rolleyes:Sorry if this sounds harsh or blunt. You can't sugar coat this one at all. There are lots of women out there with similar physical traits as yourself(OP).You're probably just going to have to find them. There is someone for everyone. :)

 

Hmm...I think that's too harsh. I do believe he could get a girlfriend if he's persistent with the online thing.

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1.73 meters.

Ah. Okay. You're an inch taller than me. I'm 5'7". That's not too bad. My XH was 5'6.5" (although he'd never admit it) and my most recent ex was 5'10". Or in other words, for metric:

 

My XH: 1.68 meters

My xbf: 1.77 meters

 

What's the average male height in Romania?

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Aroun 1.69 or 1.70.

Im slightly taller then them.

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Hmm...I think that's too harsh. I do believe he could get a girlfriend if he's persistent with the online thing.

Awww. And yet, I thought she(?) was pretty positive with the comment about there being someone for everyone.

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Aroun 1.69 or 1.70.

Im slightly taller then them.

Tall is good. :) At least I know it is in the US.

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