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Hey guys, long time no see -- update on things


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Hey everyone. Not sure if anyone remembers me anymore because I haven't posted in a while. But, for those of you that do remember -- hello again :)

 

I've been single for almost a year now and have been trying to take the advice I was given on this board long ago. I've been trying to focus more on myself and being happy single.

 

However, I must say that it hasn't been -- and isn't -- easy. I still get very lonely from time to time, and I do still wish I had someone in my life. But I can't argue that the alone time hasn't been therapeutic to some extent. Those stressors that came along with my bad relationships are things I most certainly do not miss. That isn't to say, though, that I am avoiding relationships altogether. Ostensibly, I would want a relationship with someone compatible.

 

I suppose I am just looking for a sort of proverbial light at the end of the tunnel. As a recent graduate, I am basically living on my own while working, and I worry that dating is going to become exponentially harder now that I'm done with school. I am reminded of high school... I spent most of my life forming friendships, only to have them scattered once college began. Same thing happens again in college. It seems very hard to hold onto relationships in life, of any form.

 

Regardless, I'm trying to hold my head high and keep optimistic about things!

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I'm pretty sure I remember you. WB! :)

 

It seems very hard to hold onto relationships in life, of any form.

Glad it's not just me. :eek: I find it odd that this would apply to friendship, but it unfortunately does.

 

Good thing with the attitude, though. :)

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