Soul Bear Posted July 31, 2009 Posted July 31, 2009 So i just got a call from a mutual friend, and she wanted to know about how i was etc etc. Anyway, ill cut to the chase, she slipped out that the ex was happy and her and mr.rebound are really serious! LMAO Anyway, i asked to please not relay any information to me about her, and him, and visa versa as i didnt want to know and it wasnt helping me. BUT On a side note, the ex ex called me yesterday, she split up with her bf of 3 years, havent seen her in 5.5 years and she says how much she misses me, calls me honey and tells me lots of love bla bla bla says she is moving to london in 2 weeks and wants to meet up with me for dinner and then go get some drinks and hang out, cant wait to see me... WTF?! They always come back when you are not interested anymore... So what do you make of the ex ex, and also the ex?
Author Soul Bear Posted July 31, 2009 Author Posted July 31, 2009 after hearing about the ex and her rebound being so 'serious', i am SO glad i ignored her crummy facebook friend request and deleted her message on my birthday... NC ALL THE WAY BABY!!!! WOOHOOO!!!
brock9911 Posted July 31, 2009 Posted July 31, 2009 Well this might just be the spiteful revengeful side, but maybe you should slip that info to the mutual friend. just maybe the word will get back to your ex that you "MIGHT" be going on a date with your ex ex and it might eat her away inside. what did your ex think of the other ex? but in the process DO NOT break no contact. i wouldnt be suprised if your ex told your mutual friend on purpose knowing it would get back to you. and as for your ex ex, who cares, there may not be any emotions there, but give it a whirl one last time b4 shes gone to london. fill your own needs if ya get my drift. but thats my way of looking at it.
Author Soul Bear Posted July 31, 2009 Author Posted July 31, 2009 Thanks for your reply bro im in london right now i moved here a month ago! so exex is moving here.... The mutual friend said she hardly even speaks to the ex, says she feels like they have all been dumped by her too, and i did tell her about the ex ex, but asked her not to relay ANY info...she hasnt even told her im in london yet. as far as im aware she doesnt know anything about me since i went NC... Its a shame, as i wouldnt mind her knowing about it, as they both HATE each other-the ex and the ex ex. The ex was mad at the ex ex when she dumped me, and the ex ex is mad at the ex for the way she dumped me and the things she said.... ****ing funny....twisted as hell
brock9911 Posted July 31, 2009 Posted July 31, 2009 Oh alright. i didnt realize u were in london, i thought you were in scottland. but hopping countries over there is like us going state to state here haha. yeah its a mixed up situation but who knows. even if your ex doesnt find out about the ex ex, you can still keep emotions aside and see what shes looking for. i know id be curious
Author Soul Bear Posted July 31, 2009 Author Posted July 31, 2009 i was in Scotland but i ran away from my ex to london Im very curious...i think she is too....obviously! Infact she just txt me '' handed in my notice hunny! having a big glass of wine to celebrate. im so proud of myself XxX'' i gotta say, it's nice to have the attention
brock9911 Posted July 31, 2009 Posted July 31, 2009 deff is, thats what was going on with these 2 girls i was talking to. i hooked up with one of them, and we've continually talked to each other while shes been traveling in europe. not until recently did we stop speaking
Lucky_One Posted August 1, 2009 Posted August 1, 2009 Was thinking of you just yesterday - glad to see an update. The ex ex thing sounds interesting, but it almost sounds reboundish (two recently hurt people with wounded hearts who seek something familiar and comforting). That isn't actually a bad thing, unless you hang onto it for all the wrong reasons. so meet her, have a good time catching up, but don't latch onto her unless all the past issues that made her an ex are now totally resolved! You are sounding good. How are you liking London?
DidiLU Posted August 1, 2009 Posted August 1, 2009 I got a msg from a long time ex asking me if I want to hook up I said no cause I know his wife, then I told our mutal friend and they said he's contacting all his exs to see who will bite. Maybe she's doing the same? Maybe you should meet someone new. Are we suppose to go thru NC because we hope the person will one day contact us? Or are we doing this so the other person understands they have no more power over us and that we're just fine now? I'm on the hopeful side. Silly me.
Author Soul Bear Posted August 1, 2009 Author Posted August 1, 2009 how weird, was thinking of you too...just an hour ago, was wondering where you got to.... Im liking london as much as can be expected, it's still hard but im managing, the gym definately helps me out.... As for the ex ex...or 'B' ...i dont see any6thing happening...not lasting anyway...it's too late on her part, although will have to see what comes!!! Good to hear from you Lucky....SB
Author Soul Bear Posted August 1, 2009 Author Posted August 1, 2009 Didi-Lu... my long time ex...this has been brewing since my ex split with me... Strange indeed....i know she is not in contact with the other ex as he was abusive (the guy she left me foe, he broke her wrist by pushing out of a taxi)...yup...the guy she left me for....Karma.... maybe she is doing the same, either way, im treading VERY carefully...very very carefuly....my heart still wants my current ex, although i wont give haste to the ex ex...see what happens...i doubt much except for fwb....
DidiLU Posted August 1, 2009 Posted August 1, 2009 Can you handle fwb right now? Sometimes its not a good thing.
Author Soul Bear Posted August 1, 2009 Author Posted August 1, 2009 o don't see why not... I haven't rebounded yet, just working on me...that's 4.5 months now... still Im treading carefully
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