Omega3 Posted July 31, 2009 Posted July 31, 2009 Sam convinces Amber to break up, and he'll break up with Jessica. He's breaking up with Jessica because he wants to marry her, but she's not willing to marry him. Amber breaks up with her boyfriend ready to date Sam. Sam decides they need to wait until things pass over, no rebounds. He needs to get over Jessica and Amber needs to get over her ex before he's will to date her. Gives Amber the cold shoulder while he's "getting over" Jessica. This goes on for weeks. Meanwhile, Amber thinks he's a saint because he's making sure he's over Jessica before committing, yet he shows little interest in Amber. Is it possible he's using Amber as a way to make Jessica jealous, to get her to commit like he wanted? Or do you believe that he's really trying to get over Jessica before getting in a relationship with Amber. I'm not sure I've ever seen a case where a guy wanted to be with a girl, and a girl wanted to be with a guy. Yet they cared about their exs feelings enough that they wanted to wait before dating... Just for reference, Amber is much much better looking than Jessica.
2sure Posted July 31, 2009 Posted July 31, 2009 Just for reference, Amber is much much better looking than Jessica. Not to Sam
Thomas X Forever Posted July 31, 2009 Posted July 31, 2009 [/b] Not to Sam Ah, so this post is probably by "Amber". (I doubt any of these names are accurate. Or at least not all of them).
Author Omega3 Posted July 31, 2009 Author Posted July 31, 2009 Which are you? How are you involved I'm on the sideline, I'm friends with Amber. I'm trying to understand what's going through Amber's head.
Author Omega3 Posted July 31, 2009 Author Posted July 31, 2009 Ah, so this post is probably by "Amber". (I doubt any of these names are accurate. Or at least not all of them). None of these names are accurate, and I'm not female.
Author Omega3 Posted July 31, 2009 Author Posted July 31, 2009 [/b] Not to Sam Good point. Though Sam has stated Amber is far better looking than Jessica. Perhaps not on the "inside" though.
Thomas X Forever Posted July 31, 2009 Posted July 31, 2009 Good point. Though Sam has stated Amber is far better looking than Jessica. Perhaps not on the "inside" though. Alas, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. Just because in YOUR opinion Amber looks better, doesn't mean she actually does. AT ALL. That being said... what's your motives? Why are you here asking this? Why do you REALLY care?
Author Omega3 Posted July 31, 2009 Author Posted July 31, 2009 Alas, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. Just because in YOUR opinion Amber looks better, doesn't mean she actually does. AT ALL. That being said... what's your motives? Why are you here asking this? Why do you REALLY care? Actually, Sam stated that Amber looks better. I happen to agree, but that really doesn't matter. What are my motives? I'm friends with Amber. Never met Sam or Jessica. They might be the best people ever. I just believe that Sam is stringing Amber along meanwhile, he's keeping in touch with Jessica until he determines what he wants. Possibly using Amber to make Jessica jealous? I don't know. I also only know Amber's point of view, so I can only speak from her side. I just find it odd. Normally when a guy leaves an ex to date another girl, he doesn't tell the new girl that he needs time to get over his previous breakup. Not saying it isn't a good idea, just odd. Especially going far enough to be giving a cold shoulder to the girl you plan to start dating?
Thomas X Forever Posted July 31, 2009 Posted July 31, 2009 So you want our advice, so that you can give it to Amber? Is this just because you care about her well being? Or do you have feelings for amber?
Author Omega3 Posted July 31, 2009 Author Posted July 31, 2009 So you want our advice, so that you can give it to Amber? Is this just because you care about her well being? Or do you have feelings for amber? Oh, I'm all about Amber, but I'm honestly just curious what people think. Certainly this is not the first time something like this has happened. I don't plan to bring anything up to Amber regarding this to be completely honest. She'll make her own decision despite what I have to say.
northstar1 Posted July 31, 2009 Posted July 31, 2009 Oh, I'm all about Amber, but I'm honestly just curious what people think. Certainly this is not the first time something like this has happened. I don't plan to bring anything up to Amber regarding this to be completely honest. She'll make her own decision despite what I have to say. Most ambers I know are hot. You know what to do.
Thomas X Forever Posted July 31, 2009 Posted July 31, 2009 So you have feelings for Amber? You're being serious?
Author Omega3 Posted July 31, 2009 Author Posted July 31, 2009 Most ambers I know are hot. You know what to do. Haha. I hear you. So you have feelings for Amber? You're being serious? Sure. I'm confused what this has to do with anything though. Perhaps you could shed some light on that?
Thomas X Forever Posted July 31, 2009 Posted July 31, 2009 A common folk such as yourself wouldn't understand the intricacies of psychology. LOL. I'm just kidding, just being a jackass. ... Sort've. Well, see here. It's possible you're looking for negative advice to try to steer Amber from Sam altogether, probably with the REAL motive of getting her for yourself. I just wanted you to confirm it.
Author Omega3 Posted July 31, 2009 Author Posted July 31, 2009 A common folk such as yourself wouldn't understand the intricacies of psychology. LOL. I'm just kidding, just being a jackass. ... Sort've. Well, see here. It's possible you're looking for negative advice to try to steer Amber from Sam altogether, probably with the REAL motive of getting her for yourself. I just wanted you to confirm it. I'm not looking for advice, nothing I say is going to change anything. I was looking for opinions on what people believe may be the case, or people how have been in something similar like this. I think you may be slightly confused. Obviously no one knows what is really happening, well except those involved.
Thomas X Forever Posted July 31, 2009 Posted July 31, 2009 Oh I am not confused at all my friend, but rather objectively viewing it from another standpoint. Have you ever told amber you liked her?
Author Omega3 Posted July 31, 2009 Author Posted July 31, 2009 Oh I am not confused at all my friend, but rather objectively viewing it from another standpoint. Have you ever told amber you liked her? Alright then.
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