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Starting over a relationship...Should I call him? Is this even worth it?


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I have been dating a guy for 4 months and earlier this month he asked me to be his gf, 2 weeks later we slept together for the first time and 2 days after that he broke up with me saying he realized he is not ready for a committed relationship since he will be starting with nursing school this fall, he's working fulltime and we are 55 miles apart. I accepted the break up calmly, no fights and no drama and did not call, text of email him after. 10 days later, he called and said he wants to start over, i told him i want to think about it. I called him 3 days later and said im okay with starting over and giving us another chance. We talked for an hour about the break up and how we are gonna start over and how we are still gonna date exclusively; i felt good after the conversation. but now 2 days after that conversation, he still hasn't called or texted me.

 

How do couples start over? should i call him? i don't want to be the first one to call him since he was the one who wanted to start over. we used to talk for hours on the phone almost everyday. if we cant talk, we would text and say, we cant talk today so its weird that he hasnt called me for 2 days considering that we agreed on starting over. do you think he is really serious about starting over? Is this even worth it?

 

We are both young adults and young professionals (nursing is a 2nd degree he is pursuing), both 28 years old, both independent, both have been in serious relationships in the past, no kids and never married and we have met each others families and friends during the 4 months we were dating and there were no problems from either side.

 

I cant seem to understand what is the problem.

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I cant seem to understand what is the problem.

 

His behavior. The why doesn't really matter.

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