ssj4trunks09 Posted July 31, 2009 Share Posted July 31, 2009 Ok well there's this really cute girl at the gym I wanna talk to. But I haven't gone up to her to talk to her in the gym mainly cuz she always with a friend. or she has her ipod on or something comes up. Do you think I should add her on myspace? I always catch her staring at me like if she's interested and sometimes I also catch her n her friend lookin at me too like if they're talking about me... should I? or should i just wait to talk to her in person? Also, it's been like a month now i been tryin you would think I would've done it by now.. Link to post Share on other sites
Eclypse Posted July 31, 2009 Share Posted July 31, 2009 I can tell you one thing. If I had a nickel for every time someone said "I swear she was looking at me, her and her friend were giggling" etc and then that person turned out to not be interested, well... I'd be richer than I am now. It's happened to me too. I think it's part of our human psyche, to want to see positive messages when there are none really. Of course she *could* be looking at you because she wants you. Only one way to find out, and that's to talk to her . I think that would be your best course of action is just to choose a work out spot close to her and then make some sort of comment to her after the workout or something when she takes out the ipod. Just don't go all Ron Burgundy on her "Oh what a burn, oh that's such a deep burn!" After that initial conversation, I'd feel pretty ok with adding someone on myspace, assuming of course she has seen you around as a regular for a while before. Link to post Share on other sites
sally4sara Posted July 31, 2009 Share Posted July 31, 2009 10 years from now, you might remember this post you've made and react to it much the same way I am right now..... Why on Earth do people stress over myspace/facebook crap and act like adding someone to their page is a huge nail bitting decision. Say you do end up adding her - will it get you any closer to actually talking to her? Just go talk to the girl. Forget all the myspace crap. Link to post Share on other sites
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