Lucky555 Posted July 31, 2009 Posted July 31, 2009 Guy A. still contacts me after I have known for awhile nothing is happening..yet he is contacting me still. Ok I shouldn't even bother to get sucked back in..its just he says something nice and then i reply and then its a mess again with me saying this is going no where. Here i go again. How can I turn off the switch to answering him.................grrr i am angry with myself. It bothers me that he is just contacting me for what? Its just not going anywhere so why does he bother. Guy B: Hes a guy i have been in contact with for a few months because he has been living a few states away. Now he is back in my state and asked me out and I told him i would go out with him. However now he is contacting me every night and every morning via text. He also called me one night. Now he has not mentioned going out, we live kind of far apart still so getting together would have to be planned on weekend. Now he has not mentioned a date of when we would go out. This weekend he is doing stuff for work. I do not know what this guy is doing here! Again why bother contacting me and asking me out if its not going to happen? I am not even sure if I am into this guy because we never met! So its like i rather have a date soon to see if there is anything between us rather than let it drag on. He has said before when we were going to see each other one time that he would be upset if i didn't like him. I'm not excited right now about dating either one just because it seems like neither one of these guys will take a chance. Advise anyone?
utterer of lies Posted July 31, 2009 Posted July 31, 2009 I'm not excited right now about dating either one just because it seems like neither one of these guys will take a chance. Don't date them.
Author Lucky555 Posted August 1, 2009 Author Posted August 1, 2009 thanks for the encouraging words its just what i needed...i had a tough day today and while i was going about my day at work i realized that i can move on and see what else is out there. I'm going to avoid guy A and stop responding to guy b's texts since he didn't set a date to show ambition in dating me. I really am hesitant to date either one and thats not a good thing.
SoulSearch_CO Posted August 1, 2009 Posted August 1, 2009 I really am hesitant to date either one and thats not a good thing. I'd say it's a GREAT thing that you recognized it before you got hurt.
boogieboy Posted August 1, 2009 Posted August 1, 2009 thanks for the encouraging words its just what i needed...i had a tough day today and while i was going about my day at work i realized that i can move on and see what else is out there. I'm going to avoid guy A and stop responding to guy b's texts since he didn't set a date to show ambition in dating me. I really am hesitant to date either one and thats not a good thing. It seems you wer e too aloof and thats why guy b was afraid to make a date. If you dont show him youre ambitious about him, hows he supposed to be ambitious about you? You should have taken the reigns. This is going to keep happening to you with other guys if you keep playing this game.
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