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How does one get past being terrified of being intimate?


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I have never been in a relationship before…and this guy I have been seeing recently told me how he would like to take it to the next level. So like gf/bf status! I really like him so it’s fine.

 

BUT when I keep thinking about the fact I will be someone’s gf … I get scared bc like I don't know...I get nervous & I get this sensation in my stomach every time I think of it

 

& I feel really weird to like give myself to him? & be like intimate? & share things and like emotion? Ugh.

 

Like, I want a kiss from him…but I know when the moment comes I won’t be able to do it. & most likely I will force myself BUT I will feel very AwkKwaRdD & probably not be as talkative for a while around him. I just know it!

Any advice on how to fix this? Is there something wrong with me?! I am freaking 21..almost 22!!:bunny:

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You need to conquer that little insecurity. so you've never had sex, okay so dont put too much into it. Let it happen at it's own pace, because once it happen you cant undo it and you might like it.

 

Why are you so worried about it. be calm. lol.

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