midge101 Posted July 30, 2009 Posted July 30, 2009 I recently lost alot of weight and and now seem to get a lot of attention from men. I have been off the dating scene for a while so I really need some advice. Sorry this is quite long. I have been friends with a guy at work for a while now and I thought I was out of his league for anything but that. I also heard that he is a bit of a player. But now for a about 2 months this guy has been flirting with me asking all about myself etc. Texts and phones me but only after I have done so first. So one day I asked him out and at first he said yes but after that I hadnt heard from him for a couple of days so I texted and asked him if it was still on and he cancelled on me. He didnt give me any reason. We have talked since and I asked him if he was interested in me and he yes but you need someone to make me happy as he is not ready for a relationship. But as ive just back on the dating scene I dont know what I want either. He says he cares for me. We have both flirted with each other since. Even my work colleages think we are seeing each other. He has also tries to invite himself around for dinner. But I dont want to be used for dinner and a shag I want to be taken out. The question is am I wasting my time or should I stick with it?
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