duckiiiiiie Posted July 30, 2009 Posted July 30, 2009 okay, please bear with me while i explain this, it might be kinda long. so theres a guy that i've been talking to. he just got out of a seven month relationship with the school slut. they went really far and did everything except for actually having sex. im not gonna say ages, but we are way too young for any of this. the bad part about the situation is that the guy didnt even tell me about all of this. he told my friend, and she couldnt keep her mouth shut. what should i do? i've already confronted him about it, and he apologized for lying. the thing is, i dont know if he is going to expect this sort of stuff out of me. should i just stop talking to him now, or what? i am sooooooo confused. HELPP!
boogieboy Posted July 30, 2009 Posted July 30, 2009 Duckiie youre going to learn as you get older that asking people about their pasts is very hurtful sometimes. You dont want to ask things that you dont really want to know about peoples experiences. And yes, at some point, if he experienced some things, he might want to try things with you. If you dont want to go there with him, and you just want to hold hands and such, let him know in the beginning so you dont get hurt later if he leaves you for another "school slut".
utterer of lies Posted July 30, 2009 Posted July 30, 2009 okay, please bear with me while i explain this, it might be kinda long. so theres a guy that i've been talking to. he just got out of a seven month relationship with the school slut. they went really far and did everything except for actually having sex. im not gonna say ages, but we are way too young for any of this. the bad part about the situation is that the guy didnt even tell me about all of this. he told my friend, and she couldnt keep her mouth shut. what should i do? i've already confronted him about it, and he apologized for lying. the thing is, i dont know if he is going to expect this sort of stuff out of me. should i just stop talking to him now, or what? i am sooooooo confused. HELPP! So what if he wants/expects something from you? If it doesn't feel right for you, just say no.
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