BTLC23 Posted July 30, 2009 Posted July 30, 2009 I went out with this girl for almost three years. She broke up with me text for good about 3 weeks but originally broke up with me about 7 weeks ago. For the first 4 weeks i was contacting her everyday because i was scared i was losing her but she refused any phone contact saying it wasnt a good idea. It seemed like she was losing interest after a sudden event weeks before this and she saw photos of me with other girls on facebook and refuses to talk to me on the phone after that. She broke up with me through text i did the same thing to her about a year ago but called her after. I asked her like 2 weeks ago if she doesnt want to talk because she is hiding her feelings for me. This isnt fair why is she doing this. I KNOW if it was in person or over the phone their would be a good chance we didnt break up because i know she still has feelings for me.
Thomas X Forever Posted July 30, 2009 Posted July 30, 2009 I KNOW if it was in person ... there would be a good chance we wouldn't break up because i know she still has feelings for me. I used to think the same. I thought if she only saw me in person again, it'd change everything. Of course that's because I'm a vain, conceited, and nearly narcissistic bastard that loves his own reflection a little too much. But I digress! Ahem. Have you tried showing up at her house/apartment unannounced and giving it your best shot? Have you TRIED showing up in person? You see, I never had what it took, I never had the guts or the spirit to show up and test my theory. Do I regret not trying? You betcha... Does that mean you SHOULD do that, though? Of course not... but have you considered it? How do you think she would react? Would she be swept off her feet, or would you be swept off yours by the cops?
Author BTLC23 Posted July 30, 2009 Author Posted July 30, 2009 It was a LDR the day after she saw those pics i drove up to apologize and went to her job to apologize she didnt want to see me. If i dont hear from her i might go up and suprise her in another month or so while her parents are away but she might have been moved on by then. I feel that she is doing this to make it easier for her to deal with the breakup. I was such an idiot i panicked when she broke up with beggin her and threatin myself reinforcing her decision, im sure if i acted differently it would have thrown her off/helped me chances.
Thomas X Forever Posted July 30, 2009 Posted July 30, 2009 It may have helped your chances but I have a feeling that ultimately, it wouldn't have done anything. Are you a good fisherman? Because there are plenty of fish in the sea.
Author BTLC23 Posted July 30, 2009 Author Posted July 30, 2009 well i told her i would change and all and she asked me to send her movies and i refused and she said see you havent change you cant even handle a simple task thomas if ur interested heres my story http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t196404/
utterer of lies Posted July 30, 2009 Posted July 30, 2009 Of course that's because I'm a vain, conceited, and nearly narcissistic bastard that loves his own reflection a little too much. Indeed. But I digress! No, no, just keep talking about yourself.
smookie Posted July 30, 2009 Posted July 30, 2009 I used to think the same. I thought if she only saw me in person again, it'd change everything. Of course that's because I'm a vain, conceited, and nearly narcissistic bastard that loves his own reflection a little too much. But I digress! Ahem. Have you tried showing up at her house/apartment unannounced and giving it your best shot? Have you TRIED showing up in person? You see, I never had what it took, I never had the guts or the spirit to show up and test my theory. Do I regret not trying? You betcha... Does that mean you SHOULD do that, though? Of course not... but have you considered it? How do you think she would react? Would she be swept off her feet, or would you be swept off yours by the cops? This whole thing just made my day... My daughter does not understand why I am laughing so hard!!! Thanks Thomas X Forever YOU ROCK.... Hey I'll marry you!!!
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