marmaliade Posted July 30, 2009 Posted July 30, 2009 How to get rid off the feeling of being scared to lose someone?
utterer of lies Posted July 30, 2009 Posted July 30, 2009 How to get rid off the feeling of being scared to lose someone? Do actually lose them.
Soul Bear Posted July 30, 2009 Posted July 30, 2009 Even if you want it back, that wont happen until its gone. As i said before, in order to let water flow to you, you must first let it flow from you. What i take from this, is even though i wouldnt mind another chance, i am NC and thats the way it shal remain until its all gone. Only then if its meant to be, will it come back again...if we tried now, or i let her off the hook and forgave her and we became 'friends', that would never work.......if that makes sense Dont be afraid, trust in the process
Road To Joy Posted July 30, 2009 Posted July 30, 2009 Dont be afraid, trust in the process This says a lot.
moo Posted July 30, 2009 Posted July 30, 2009 make your life full on your own and don't build your world around someone.
on edge Posted July 31, 2009 Posted July 31, 2009 How to get rid off the feeling of being scared to lose someone? There is no way other than not really liking them. If you have ever loved someone then you were scared to lose them, right? Otherwise, you didn't really love them. EDIT: Or just date unattractive people.
PinkToes Posted July 31, 2009 Posted July 31, 2009 A fear of losing someone isn't actually about them. The fear is that you won't be able to handle it if they leave. So the best way to conquer a fear of losing someone is to work on your inner strength, and start to believe that no matter what happens on the outside, you'll be OK on the inside. Know that you will survive, and the fear will lessen.
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