Heartbroken-idiot Posted July 30, 2009 Posted July 30, 2009 if anyones read one of my previous threads it would be easier to understand but my ex and i split up about 5 weeks ago and spoke on and off for the first week but she didnt really want anything to do with me, after about 2-3 weeks NC she sort of got talking to me, via facebook because she knows my FB password n i look at her profile threw a friends account, after about 3 days of taking via status she emailed me it was the day after her brithday. we have been speaking now for almost 2 weeks almost everyday about everything again and things had been going very well, we spoke on the phone for over an hour last week as well. she is 20 and when not at uni lives at home with her parents, who i had untill recentley got along well with, they live hours away from my home though. i got a phone call from her mum yesterday asking if my ex had been talkng to me and i said yes (because as far as i knew her mum knew we had been talking) and her mum was really upset because my ex had been lying to her telling her she hadnt and she wouldnt, this in turn hurt me a bit because i wanted to know why she would to her mum about it. well we got speaking for about 30 mins and i was trying to tell her its probably nothing defending my ex and she asked other awkward questions to to which i tried to defened her as best as possible. I dnt know my exs phone number anymore so i tried to ring her at work to give her a heads up that her mum knew because i thought that would be fair but she didnt answer. i was on FB last night when i got logged off, meaning she had logged in as me, she then went straght on her account and put "some need more time, i'm sorry if presumptions are made" as her status, i emailed her asking her a few things but she hasnt replied. what im i ment to do now? and what does that status mean? because i thought things were going really well and now im taking steps back again thats how it seems and im being messed around yet still i want her and want to know shes ok.
smookie Posted July 30, 2009 Posted July 30, 2009 If she is going to get upset that you were being honest really there is nothing you can do to change that. You were being honest and you did nothing at all wrong. You had no clue that she was being dishonest to her patents... Do not beat yourself up over something you can not change,
Author Heartbroken-idiot Posted July 30, 2009 Author Posted July 30, 2009 its not that im beating myself up its that im totally confused by the situation? like i cannot understand whats going on in her head.
smookie Posted July 30, 2009 Posted July 30, 2009 Hi, When i say "beat your self up" I only mean that over thinking it. It is hard to understand it of course. She will come around and want to talk to you again right now she has been caught and she is not happy about it. (caught in a lie)
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