I am very curious in figuring out what's on my mind of my ex-live in partner

[maria_patheticsoul]

I have an update regarding my break up with my live -in partner.

Just a recap last July 18 i left his place with my daughter and after one day not being with him he sent me a txt message like we are still a couple.I did not reply to any of his txt messages.Last tuesday he sent me again another txt message...i felt so guilty because what he said in his txt message was true...that he relocated here for me...he left all his loved ones and even quit his job back home.So i decided to chat with him...in our chat he burst out all his sentiments and anger because he said that he can not say infront of me.That is the only time i knew that he has lots of issues about me...it shocked me but i keep my calm and just let him take it all out of his chest.Finally he was done he asked me if i want to give it another try i did not right away reply him with his question because he has new rules which i find very funny.My own words as a **** buddy he used as a new term for our relationship.Six weeks of being **** buddy and see if it will work...but during that time we can not both look for someone else...we can not have sex with someone else.But we can go out and do the things that will not harm us both.So i asked him if he thinks it will work for us and he simply replied with "we will never know if we will not try it".He said it's not yet too late.I told him i will think about it.I know it will not work out for us but i wanted to give him the pleasure of proving it to him.I am not bitter anymore about what happened to us.I know that soon he can get over it but what i am curious about is why he still want to try it again.In my heart i know i can never believe everything he will say to me.I am still wondering if he did really loved me.This coming friday night i agreed to see him and maybe have sex with him for the last time.I needed to see him because i want to prove to myself that my love for him faded away which was not so hard to do.With all the things he said to me over chat it helped me a lot.I realized that i don't need a man who can not accept me for what i am and wants to change me.By the way he still says he love me so much and he will always love me....words come cheap these days.

I really need some input about this...i must admit that visiting this site helped me to move on and accept what happened to my relationship.

[TaraMaiden]

Oh. My. Goodness....

 

Don't even think about it.....

 

Walk - no, on second thoughts, run - from this as fast as you can.

This is merely designed to make him feel good sexually, and to satisfy his urges, at best, and is manipulative and controlling at worst.

If he really just wants a f***buddy, tell him to go look for one somewhere else.

The whole point of having a F***buddy is that it's a liberating sexually gratifying experience, with no holds or commitments. He's laying down rules to suit himself, not you....

respect yourself and your body, by keeping it for someone who will value you for who you are, and who will want you unconditionally.

Look up a member called 'Caliguy'. Read the link on No Contact in his signature.

THAT is what you should be doing.

Cut the ties and free yourself from this indecisive non-committal jerk.

[smookie]

What are you doing? Why would you consider something like that? Have sex to see if I still love him? You already know if you love him or not, you do not have to have sex to see that part? This is one messed up situation.