HeartBroken928 Posted July 30, 2009 Posted July 30, 2009 i have let my ex boyfriend go but everytime i do he comes back. i try to move on and find another guy but something tells me not to move on yet. me and him have been talking and he has kinda hinted around wonting me to be his girl friend agian. his family dont wont him talking to me but he still calls me anyway. Does this mean i should stay with him?
Thornton Posted July 30, 2009 Posted July 30, 2009 It depends on your reasons for "letting him go". Who dumped who, and why did the relationship end?
SoulSearch_CO Posted July 30, 2009 Posted July 30, 2009 It depends on your reasons for "letting him go". Who dumped who, and why did the relationship end? I add to these questions by asking how old each of you are and if either has had another LTR before this one came along? How long were you guys together? How many times have you broken up?
Author HeartBroken928 Posted July 30, 2009 Author Posted July 30, 2009 I add to these questions by asking how old each of you are and if either has had another LTR before this one came along? How long were you guys together? How many times have you broken up? this is the first time we have broken up! we was together 8 months and he lived with me for 5...
SoulSearch_CO Posted July 30, 2009 Posted July 30, 2009 this is the first time we have broken up! we was together 8 months and he lived with me for 5... i have let my ex boyfriend go but everytime i do he comes back. Um, okay. Original post not very clear. So this is the FIRST time you have broken up. Please answer the other questions if you want an educated answer to your question: WHY did you break up? WHO dumped who? HOW old are each of you? Have either of you been in a LTR before this one?
Author HeartBroken928 Posted July 30, 2009 Author Posted July 30, 2009 Um, okay. Original post not very clear. So this is the FIRST time you have broken up. Please answer the other questions if you want an educated answer to your question: WHY did you break up? WHO dumped who? HOW old are each of you? Have either of you been in a LTR before this one? we broke up cuz of his x girlfriend i broke up with him he is 21 and im 16 Whats LTR
SoulSearch_CO Posted July 30, 2009 Posted July 30, 2009 we broke up cuz of his x girlfriend i broke up with him he is 21 and im 16 Whats LTR LTR=Long Term Relationship What was the deal with his X? Is the issue with his X resolved such that it wouldn't cause future problems? Why doesn't his family want him contacting you?
Author HeartBroken928 Posted July 30, 2009 Author Posted July 30, 2009 LTR=Long Term Relationship What was the deal with his X? Is the issue with his X resolved such that it wouldn't cause future problems? Why doesn't his family want him contacting you? the family thing i dont know about...but he is mexican and they are much different then american yea he had a LTR before me. his was the one he had a kid with. but i dont have ti worry aobut her any more she is out of the picture i broke up with him because his ex went to south carolina( were he is at) so he could see his kid..and she started staying with him that y we broke up.. but now she is oout of the picture and i dont have to worry about that
SoulSearch_CO Posted July 30, 2009 Posted July 30, 2009 Well, then I suppose there's not a lot of harm in sitting down and at least talking to him about it. See where you go from there. You're positive that the X thing is never going to come up again? Because he will need to see his kid someday, meaning that the X will always be SOMEWHERE in the picture unless he's given up his parental rights.
Author HeartBroken928 Posted July 30, 2009 Author Posted July 30, 2009 Well, then I suppose there's not a lot of harm in sitting down and at least talking to him about it. See where you go from there. You're positive that the X thing is never going to come up again? Because he will need to see his kid someday, meaning that the X will always be SOMEWHERE in the picture unless he's given up his parental rights. im pretty sure she wont be back... me and her have became friends and she calls me somtimes and tells that she isnt going to get back with him.. she isnt going to let him see his kid... but what does the felling i get mean when i try to move on something tells me not to... he has kinda been hinting around about wanting me to be his girl friend agian
Thornton Posted August 3, 2009 Posted August 3, 2009 I'd advise you to let him go and look for someone else. You're only 16, you have plenty of time to meet guys... and he's 21, which is quite a lot older than you. Plus he has a child, and an ex who will always be in his life in some way because of their child. He's already proved himself to be a bad boyfriend - after all he presumably left you and moved in with his ex - he has a lot of drama in his life and you're better off out of it. In any case, any guy who doesn't see his kid probably isn't the sort of guy you want to spend your life with anyway. Sorry, but if you were my daughter I would not allow you to continue seeing this guy. Look for someone more your own age, with no kids or other commitments.
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