Stockholm Posted July 30, 2009 Posted July 30, 2009 Soooo.... Me & my bf broke up 3 months ago. A friend of mine & her bf have heard A LOT of stories about this slightly crazy break up. Well, I guess they were trying to hook me up with someone new.... So, two weeks ago I visited their place and after we went out to a bar and one of my friend's bf's friend dropped by. Turned out that me and this guy are going out at the same places, both like design and the 4 of us ended up hanging out. When I was on the way home I got a message from my friend "A is interested in seeing you again." Wrote back to her that she could give A my number. Then he added me on facebook and the day after he found me on the chat and told me that it was really nice to see me and that we should meet up as a group or that just me and him should hang out. Me and this guy started to plan to go to a place the week after and then my friend invited both of us to a book launch party, without telling me but he told me that he was going and was looking forward to see me. The book launch party came and there was so many signs - like literally that this guy is interested. My friend even asked me straight up if I was interested in this guy, as he apparently is interested in me. I said that "He seems nice." When we went to dinner the same evening my friend's bf even said: "Oh no, this is not a double-date, it's jsut how it looks like! Haha!" They guy even touched me arm when I left, holding it a little bit longer. He paid attention to everything I said, it was really nice. I might had gone a little bit crazy when my friend, me and this guy were talking. The book launch we attended was for a book that involved male dateing, for guys that couldn't find a date. I didn't know that and thought it just was general dating and said something like: "This is a book for you! Are you going to read it to the guy?" My friend got really jokingly upset about this: "What on earth are you saying? Do you know what the book is about??" Anyway, me and this guy spoke on the messenger the day after the party but after that I haven't heard a word from him. Nothing. He's not online on facebook, no updates on twitter... Weird. I really thought he would ask me ot on a date but apparently that's not happening. So what do you guys think? Wait it out? Forget about it? Ask my friend? Ask him if he wants to join for the beach>? I know he loves to go the beach and no one can go this weekend so I figured I might as well ask him or would that be weird? I'm actually really interested in this guy. He seems like a really guy. I'm 27 and he's 34. Should probably add to this that he also broke up with his gf some months ago.
monkey00 Posted July 30, 2009 Posted July 30, 2009 If he has your contact info and likes you, I'd say wait it out a week and see what happens. If he's shy or not sure if you like him, I would say there's nothing wrong with you taking the initiative. Both of you are grown adults after-all.
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