Gamine Posted August 2, 2009 Posted August 2, 2009 I am strictly monogamous. Thank you for answering my questions... I have always had a very judgmental attitude towards people involved in this sort of 'lifestyle' because I suppose I am not an animalistic woman. Sensual... warm honey... not raw, tough body part stuff. Thank you for being so courteous.
sxyNYCcpl Posted August 3, 2009 Posted August 3, 2009 I am strictly monogamous. That's okay, we won't hold that against you. And we won't bite either, well, unless you ask us to. I have always had a very judgmental attitude towards people involved in this sort of 'lifestyle' because I suppose I am not an animalistic woman. One need not be animalistic in order to enjoy sex purely for enjoying sex. And even if that is not something you want from your life, I see no reason for you to be judgmental about those who do, unless they attempt to force it on you. Thank you for being so courteous. My pleasure. I really am a normal guy, I just have more sexual variety and experiences than most people have. NBD.
Just Call Me Reba Posted August 3, 2009 Posted August 3, 2009 Milk flavor123 I have a very good friend who is a swinger. It has not only enhanced her and her hubbys relationship but it has been possibly the reason they have been together for over 20 years. I speak with her alot about this because I have been curious at times as to how two people could go about it properly. I know she and he are solid and there are no jealousy issues...wonderful people but because of their high profiles have to be careful mostly for business sake. If you and your hubby are indeed solid...mutally agree on the boundaries and there must be boundaries...then you can both thrive from it. Always remember to be considerate to the cares of each other...and always remember the real focus is on each other and your enhancement of what you already have together. Good luck...Reba
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