Passionate69 Posted July 29, 2009 Posted July 29, 2009 If you figured out later in your marriage from your spouse that the ONLY reason She/He married because she/He wants a companion;and afraid to be alone. how would you feel, and what are you going to do? note: this is not about my relationship.
seibert253 Posted July 29, 2009 Posted July 29, 2009 Depends on how the marriage is when I/you find this out. Some grow closer over time. I believe true love developes. With my wife, when we first started seeing each other, I didn't love her. There wasn't that instantanious fireworks, spark, whatever. But, as time went on, I grew to love and cherish her more than life itself. So if I found my wife/significant other, wasn't truely in love, but just afraid to be alone, yada, yada, I truely don't know what I'd do. If she was happy, and I was happy, then enough said.
jamjag Posted July 29, 2009 Posted July 29, 2009 hummm. I want to be married to someone that wants to be married to ME, not just to be married. That is someone that really loves and is IN LOVE with me. I believe that is what gets you through the rough times, and ponder if things are okay now - how will they been when rough time hit or worse yet what happens when one of you happen across someone that you do really LOVE. I don't want to settle;however if I found this out once I was married it would be tricky but I think I would want us to divorce so that we could each find the right mate. It would not be easy though.
marriage Posted August 4, 2009 Posted August 4, 2009 I believe that is what gets you through the rough times, and ponder if things are okay now - how will they been when rough time hit or worse yet what happens when one of you happen across someone that you do really LOVE.
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