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I'm 23 years old and he's 54, is this too big of an age gap?


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The first night he was calling me constantly and I did not feel like talking.

 

This doesn't sound good. LOL

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I find the thought generically creepy too... but I think I could make some exceptions. If he was aware of the age gap, very respectful, treated and considered her as his equal (there are a few 23 years old that have the maturity of very mature 40 years old), I guess I would find it acceptable (with some reservations). If he was the first one to worry about the age gap, it would also be a good sign.

 

Which does not sound like the case of MissJoness'friend.

 

Unless... we are just all jumping to conclusions, and he is not really after anything else than friendship. Perhaps he just really likes the OP as a person and is a bit socially awkward - enough not to realize that he might sound like he is after a relaionship or sex with someone much younger.

Perhaps he is not discussing his past relationship because he does not find it appropriate?

 

MissJoness... do you think there are any chances he might be *not* trying to hit on you?[/QUOTE]

 

I'm pretty sure he is hitting on me. His eyes were skimming my face, body and everything else, he even gave me a compliment. I don't think he asked for my number just to be friends. He even asked if I was seeing somebody

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