moo Posted July 29, 2009 Posted July 29, 2009 For the first time since he cruelly left me, he wasn't my first thought when I got up this morning. He was my second thought, but hey, that's progress. Over three weeks NC and still going strong. To anyone that thinks the sun won't come out again, have hope. For two months I was hopeless and in a dark hole with no way out (so I thought). About 3 weeks ago I went NC. NC does work if you give it a chance.
New_life Posted July 29, 2009 Posted July 29, 2009 thanks moo that gives me hope, yesterday after a long time i finally broke down and cried my heart out. Today is day 4 of NC, 4 months after break, and 1 month after I told her I wanted NC.
northstar1 Posted July 29, 2009 Posted July 29, 2009 For the first time since he cruelly left me, he wasn't my first thought when I got up this morning. He was my second thought, but hey, that's progress. Over three weeks NC and still going strong. To anyone that thinks the sun won't come out again, have hope. For two months I was hopeless and in a dark hole with no way out (so I thought). About 3 weeks ago I went NC. NC does work if you give it a chance. Good stuff! I found that having my alarm go off tuned to EPSN radio helped to distract me upon waking.
vring81 Posted July 29, 2009 Posted July 29, 2009 Im glad to hear this. We have been broken up for about a month but its only day 6 of no contact for me. It is hard but always at then end of the day, im proud of myself for not caving.
Author moo Posted July 29, 2009 Author Posted July 29, 2009 Thanks for your compliments. Yes, it does get harder at night time. The strong urge to call at nighttime still persists. You know, I would have not known anything about healing thru NC if I had not come here. Gosh, there are so many people on here that have been a GREAT big help. Thank you LS posters.
hoping2heal Posted July 29, 2009 Posted July 29, 2009 yay moo! Am happy for you dear, and yes it is progress
utterer of lies Posted July 29, 2009 Posted July 29, 2009 For the first time since he cruelly left me, he wasn't my first thought when I got up this morning. He was my second thought, but hey, that's progress. Over three weeks NC and still going strong. To anyone that thinks the sun won't come out again, have hope. For two months I was hopeless and in a dark hole with no way out (so I thought). About 3 weeks ago I went NC. NC does work if you give it a chance. Horray for you!
Thomas X Forever Posted July 29, 2009 Posted July 29, 2009 We are truly over someone when we are indifferent.
northstar1 Posted July 29, 2009 Posted July 29, 2009 We are truly over someone when we are indifferent. I knew i was over her when my first thought was my morning wood.
hoping2heal Posted July 29, 2009 Posted July 29, 2009 I knew i was over her when my first thought was my morning wood. cedar or oak?
northstar1 Posted July 29, 2009 Posted July 29, 2009 cedar or oak? starts out as balsam and turns to oak
hoping2heal Posted July 29, 2009 Posted July 29, 2009 starts out as balsam and turns to oak WOW. No splinters is it??
Lyssa Posted July 29, 2009 Posted July 29, 2009 Lol - funny comments on here. Moo, glad you're getting there!!
aloneanddepressed Posted July 29, 2009 Posted July 29, 2009 This is good you are getting better. You know, its weird I don't have a strong urge to call my ex, and haven't really for weeks. I guess I know it would be completely awkward, he wouldn't pick up, and I don't want him to know he is worth the call. Thanks for your compliments. Yes, it does get harder at night time. The strong urge to call at nighttime still persists. You know, I would have not known anything about healing thru NC if I had not come here. Gosh, there are so many people on here that have been a GREAT big help. Thank you LS posters.
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