cutepinkblob Posted July 29, 2009 Posted July 29, 2009 Well, my ex dumped me due to me being quite needy, and he had had enough of me needing him. Well, i went into no contact and day after he dumped me, so quite early on. It has been near on a month and i thought now would be a good time to apologise (T-dubs clean slate method). I wrote it all out, texted him telling him to call me once he is up and he did, and read out my apology and he thought it was really sweet and caring. He then started asking about my life, how im doing with my driving lessons, and seeing a therapist and stuff like that, he wanted to carry on the conversation but i literally wanted it to be the sorry and then thats it, but he kept asking questions and talking to me (good sign or bad sign???). So i then said that i have to go, and he said "alright well, see you around", and i hung up. Have i done the right thing? And is there any chance of me getting him back??? Thank you (: x
LostInLimbo Posted July 29, 2009 Posted July 29, 2009 Other then feeding his ego (which is hard to control) you did what your heart told you and you left it as that, he knows now. If you hadn't, im sure it would be eating at you, to do it, just move on, he knows how you feel and knows how to find you, try and go NC to help get yourself strong, not to get him back. sometimes the Heart does what the Heart wants, but continue on doing what your doing to stay busy, do things and let it fall into place as it may, you chasing after him, will only have you continuing to chase him, its a boost for the ego, I had it done to me and it was kinda creepy, although I always wished I was chased, when it comes to it, its fun for a day or so, then becomes ridiculous. Hope that helped a Little LiL
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