Lyssa Posted July 29, 2009 Posted July 29, 2009 So here's the situation : I was involved in an event last weekend with 3 other people. We were in charge of the international artists and we had rooms to ourselves in the hotel. I shared one room with Z and the other two guys shared a room together. The guys are friends of one of my BFF and great guys, I must add. We hit it off and so did Z with us all. On the night of the introductory party, we headed down the club and partied all night. Z was with the in-house DJ throughout the whole night (which turned out to be my primary schoolmate and good friend back in the days). I was busy keeping the press away from the stars and also, from girls that were throwing themselves at them. Basically, I was doing my job while she was having fun somewhere else. At 4am, I decided enough was enough and went up to the room to retire for the night. I was getting myself comfortable when Z came in with old friend. Now if I were not tired, that wouldn't have bothered me but I was so exhausted, all I wanted to do was sleep. But what bothered me the most was that she didn't ask me before she came up with him. Z just came in and said "I brought him up with me, hope it's alright with you". I couldn't say no then cause he just strutted in like some huge superstar and sat at the desk. We made small talks like how it's been ages since we last talked and all that time, I was just thinking about getting into bed! Did she think it was alright just cause he was my schoolmate? So what happened was - I left the room. Told them I had to meet some friends that happened to stay in the same hotel but I got myself another room and slept there instead. Now, I found out that she's not talking to me cause apparently, I owe her an apology. Why should I apologise?! I don't owe her anything! Or am I wrong here? Take note that, she has a BF in another country and he was flying in to be with her (as in packed all his stuff, started an office here etc) and all that time, she had another guy in the same room with her. So why should I apologise? I'm confuzzled!
Littlemadam Posted July 29, 2009 Posted July 29, 2009 Hmmm, I am totally with you on this one. Unless you guys do that kind of thing regularly she has some complete cheek! The only reason that I can think she wants an apology is you weren't there to help her case with pulling your old school friend. I would maybe talk to her but explain explicitly how tired you were and how you needed rest, there is no way you should have had to go and pay for another room at all!!!! If you communicate she may then be able to see your POV but at the moment she is being selfish and that is not on! Good luck xxx
Citizen Erased Posted July 29, 2009 Posted July 29, 2009 Just tell her you were tired and thought she wanted some alone time with him. You have absolutely no need to apologise.
Author Lyssa Posted July 29, 2009 Author Posted July 29, 2009 Hmmm, I am totally with you on this one. Unless you guys do that kind of thing regularly she has some complete cheek! The only reason that I can think she wants an apology is you weren't there to help her case with pulling your old school friend. I would maybe talk to her but explain explicitly how tired you were and how you needed rest, there is no way you should have had to go and pay for another room at all!!!! If you communicate she may then be able to see your POV but at the moment she is being selfish and that is not on! Good luck xxx It's not something we do regularly, in fact, this is the first job I've ever done with her. The thing that made me uncomfortable was that from the desk, he moved on to her onto the couch and had his arms around her. They were pretty drunk and were making cute voice to one another. I think I am rather peeved about it is because she didn't check with me way earlier before she brought him up into the room AND then, expect an apology from me. I don't see why I should apologise, but maybe by starting this thread - someone else can point out to me. Thanks, LM. Just tell her you were tired and thought she wanted some alone time with him. You have absolutely no need to apologise. I called her just now and she refused to answer my calls. Thanks, CE.
RovingDaisy45 Posted July 29, 2009 Posted July 29, 2009 You dont really owe her an apology at all. It's childish and immature of her to a.) stop talking to you, and b.) expect an apology. I would just tell her straight up it was somewhat bogus to bring some man up to the room late at night ,and that next time they should go somewhere else.
Author Lyssa Posted July 29, 2009 Author Posted July 29, 2009 You dont really owe her an apology at all. It's childish and immature of her to a.) stop talking to you, and b.) expect an apology. I would just tell her straight up it was somewhat bogus to bring some man up to the room late at night ,and that next time they should go somewhere else. Thanks RD45. I think it's childish too. She's still not answering my calls. I'm not calling to apologise, as I said I don't think I'm wrong but I'd like to talk about this so that this doesn't happen in the future (if and when we work together again).
Citizen Erased Posted July 29, 2009 Posted July 29, 2009 Thanks RD45. I think it's childish too. She's still not answering my calls. I'm not calling to apologise, as I said I don't think I'm wrong but I'd like to talk about this so that this doesn't happen in the future (if and when we work together again). Really, she is the one being childish and rude. You tried to call her and talk, she is being rude. She knows you called, if she decides to stop acting like a child, then you sort it out. If not, if you work together again, piss her off even more by being really nice to her.
Author Lyssa Posted July 30, 2009 Author Posted July 30, 2009 Really, she is the one being childish and rude. You tried to call her and talk, she is being rude. She knows you called, if she decides to stop acting like a child, then you sort it out. If not, if you work together again, piss her off even more by being really nice to her. I might just do that. Thanks, love. I'm not that upset anymore. I would still like to talk to her cause I don't want things to go sour between us (it already has, in a way).
tblucky Posted July 30, 2009 Posted July 30, 2009 Don't be confused with crazy people. They are just crazy
Author Lyssa Posted July 30, 2009 Author Posted July 30, 2009 Don't be confused with crazy people. They are just crazy :lmao:
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