lsb Posted July 29, 2009 Posted July 29, 2009 Hi. It helps to write here. Basically I do not have a lot of dating experience and the last guy I went out with was really my first REAL boyfriend. I am 26 and he was my first. I ended up dumping him. I kinda know I made the right decision but it still bothers me in a way. I know I don't want to get back with him now. But I guess what bothers me is this - am I supposed to try and be on good terms with him especially since he was the first guy I was with? I tried to be friends with him but he kept alluding to us going out again and basically rushing things again....so....i now want to do strict no contact for good. Is this harsh? I pulled back in every way and am not contacting him anymore. I guess part of me wishes I could be on better terms with the first guy I was with....
LostInLimbo Posted July 29, 2009 Posted July 29, 2009 Do whats best for you and your feelings, because you have to live with them, if it feels right then go with it, sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind....and even though it was your first real love, that won't change anything, it will always still be your first real love, we have all had them, but they come and go sometimes and thats the fun of it, learning and living to find someone else that we are more compatible with.... Hope That Helps LiL
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