shelyse Posted July 29, 2009 Posted July 29, 2009 Ok well me and my bf have been together for about a year and nine months now he lives with me and just recently he told me he was gonna move back home after he told me that ive been having dreams of him cheating on me and the dreams happened before alot! i dont no what to do... we dont even make love like we use to its like hes tired of me and when i try to talk to him about the way i feel he just blowes it off like he dont wanna talk about it i dont what to do... Should we go on a break before he goes? Or break up... he tells me he loves me and i no he does and i love him to but why do i feel like he dosent and why am i having dreams of him cheating on me... now that hes gonna move i just dont no what to do...
lizzy_09 Posted July 30, 2009 Posted July 30, 2009 Ok well me and my bf have been together for about a year and nine months now he lives with me and just recently he told me he was gonna move back home after he told me that ive been having dreams of him cheating on me and the dreams happened before alot! i dont no what to do... we dont even make love like we use to its like hes tired of me and when i try to talk to him about the way i feel he just blowes it off like he dont wanna talk about it i dont what to do... Should we go on a break before he goes? Or break up... If your sure of how you feel about him and he isn't, then I think it best that you should go on a break. How can you continue a relationship when your doing all the effort. Your suppose to work on it together. he tells me he loves me and i no he does and i love him to but why do i feel like he dosent and why am i having dreams of him cheating on me... now that hes gonna move i just dont no what to do...In my perspective, I feel like he doesn't, I'd follow my intuition. I always believe this quote "The best and most beautiful things in the world can't be seen or touched." It's the way that a guy would make me feel, if I sense he doesn't, even if he says that he does, then I'd tell him I don't feel it. Maybe this way he'd come to understand you better, and help you overcome your fears.
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