jsantana624 Posted July 29, 2009 Posted July 29, 2009 I been with my girlfriend for four good years. I love my to death and I know she loves me too. But now she is telling me that she thinks that she needs break. I didnt even know how to respone to that. She said that she needs time to clear her mind and think things through, that she wants to have time to miss me and want to want to be with me. So I agree to this break and asked her if we still together on this break and she said yes we still are together that she just needs time. Should I be worried and its been one week already that we haven't seen on spoken to each other at all. And how long is this break going to be.. because I dont think I can handle it.
hoping2heal Posted July 29, 2009 Posted July 29, 2009 Is there anything that prompted this? Has she seemed happy? Has she gone through anything recently? I'm just trying to understand what prompted a break all of the sudden.
Josh126 Posted July 29, 2009 Posted July 29, 2009 She thinks that I cheated on her two years ago but i told her that i didnt and I thought she got passed that because everything seem ok but now I think she is feeling a little unhappy..
ssj4trunks09 Posted July 29, 2009 Posted July 29, 2009 Well four years of being together is a long time.. have you guys ever broken up in these four years? Idk, from what I've seen people get tired of seeing the same person everyday after a while and sometimes they just need to get away for a couple of days to relax.
lizzy_09 Posted July 29, 2009 Posted July 29, 2009 She thinks that I cheated on her two years ago but i told her that i didnt Two years? That long and still she's holding that against you even if you didn't. Maybe there was something you did that made her feel totally insecure about your feelings towards her. and I thought she got passed that because everything seem ok but now I think she is feeling a little unhappy..Then cheer her up. Do something to win her affection. Court her again if you have to. Just my suggestion.
sandy12345678993 Posted July 29, 2009 Posted July 29, 2009 I hate to be the downer here. My latest exboyfriend asked me for a break 3 months ago. He promised me that he loved me, and he would be back for me. I only sent him 2 texts telling him that I missed him and would be there for him. I thought that I was giving him his space so after the 2 texts, which he didn't answer, I didn't contact him for a month. He didn't contact me that whole time. So I finally got the courage to ask him where we stood, and when I called I found out that his phone number wasn't a working number. And that was it, the end of our relationship. I never got anything else from him. He didn't even have the balls to tell me it was over. I've heard that some breaks can be for the best. Absence makes the heart grow fonder or something like that. She asked for a break, so that means that she thought about breaking up with you but something was stopping her from fully doing it. That's promising. I hope everything works out for you.
adamt Posted July 29, 2009 Posted July 29, 2009 Sorry to say this, but be prepared for her to want to break up with you. I was in the same situation. She wanted a break, 2 weeks later she emailed me and said she missed me. Another 2 weeks later she broke up with me. She might miss you and come back but the odds are not in your favour. All you can do is go along with her wishes and not contact her and hope she realises she misses you enough to work things out. But don't put any pressure on her as that will push her away.
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