BeautifulMan Posted July 29, 2009 Posted July 29, 2009 I need good and quick advice if possible. The situation is about this female friend of mine. I have been fond of her for a while now and I suspect she has been of me (even the tiniest bit) without any sexual interaction. We have never made broken through the friendship barrier and the last time I tried she was open to it but things might have changed since then. There is a guy involved but I have a feeling she is just looking for something that she won't find with him, which is disappointing. Is it appropriate for me to tell her, should I have already grabbed her and kissed her in my strong arms or am I being a pussy? I need an outside perspective. Thanks.
aimeeg Posted July 29, 2009 Posted July 29, 2009 Personally, I would tell her how you feel. Explain how you feel in detail too, girls LOVE that. It shows you really are serious about it and truly care. Breaking the friend barrier isn't all that hard, but if she's pursuing someone else at the moment... That might be a little difficult. I would still tell her how you feel but just be aware that if someone else is in the picture, you might not get the reply from her that you are hoping for. But if you think she does have feeling for you, then I say definitely take a shot. It seems like you two will be together in no time, and good luck.
utterer of lies Posted July 29, 2009 Posted July 29, 2009 I need good and quick advice if possible. The situation is about this female friend of mine. I have been fond of her for a while now and I suspect she has been of me (even the tiniest bit) without any sexual interaction. We have never made broken through the friendship barrier and the last time I tried she was open to it but things might have changed since then. There is a guy involved but I have a feeling she is just looking for something that she won't find with him, which is disappointing. Is it appropriate for me to tell her, No. should I have already grabbed her and kissed her in my strong arms Yes. am I being a pussy? Yes.
utterer of lies Posted July 29, 2009 Posted July 29, 2009 Personally, I would tell her how you feel. Explain how you feel in detail too, girls LOVE that. It shows you really are serious about it and truly care. Breaking the friend barrier isn't all that hard, but if she's pursuing someone else at the moment... That might be a little difficult. I would still tell her how you feel but just be aware that if someone else is in the picture, you might not get the reply from her that you are hoping for. But if you think she does have feeling for you, then I say definitely take a shot. It seems like you two will be together in no time, and good luck. Is this a troll? This is exactly what you SHOULDN'T do.
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