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[angelface78]

Well i just want to tell you that i cant believe we are broken up again. I have not called you for over a month now. Your sister wrote to me on myspace and she said she was crying because she misses me. She said your entire family misses me. I cant believe they miss me and you probably dont. I want you to know that i know you look at my myspace page everyday. Why?? For what you jerk!!! If you were a real man you would pick up the phone and call. I know you are going to come crawling back like you do everytime once summer is over. Afer you've had your fun with your buddies drinking and doing God knows what else. YOU ARE A SELFISH PRICK! In the end we all get what we deserve and i just pray to God to give me strength to keep going. I have kept NC for over a month and i will continue because i will not call you!!! I will not give u the satisfaction. So keep wondering when i will call. I WONT!!!!

[ATR]

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t117844/

[Thaddeus]

Not an ex, but someone I know:

 

Your incessant teasing is becoming tiresome. It used to be provocative, even funny sometimes, but I know what you're up to and I'm done with it. I don't care one whit whether you have a brazilian or whether you like it a certain way or that you love the feel of a rooster in your mouth. Knock it off. I've lost interest.

 

If you bring home another man and wanna bonk him all night long, by all means go ahead. Just close the window so the entire neighborhood doesn't have to listen to it.

 

And stop yelling at your kids. You have beautiful, healthy children. Be thankful they're not like that spoiled slob down the street.

[moo]

you weren't worth my time or tears. The person I spoke to on the hotline said that you sounded like you were not a quality person and that I deserved more. You wanted something easy that didn't take any effort. You said this new gf is easier to date because she lives near you. You will do the same thing to her that you did to me and others before me. I'm a really good quality person and you are not allowed to be part of my life anymore. Today makes three weeks of NC and I'm stronger than ever. As time goes by I realize how much of a ridiculous person you really are. Your life will always be wrenched with chaos and confusion. Thanks for taking your nonsense and your selfishness somewhere else. Gosh, I feel sooo sorry for her.

[Peanut9330]

You cheated on me and I took you back and you decided to go and cheat again.. and now you expect me to take you back with open arms. You act like you did nothing wrong when you did everything worng, you turend your back on me when I needed you most and you felt more compasion twords the other woman then you did to me and I been with you for 3 years and did everything in my power to make you happy and she's only been there for 2 months. Karma will come bite you in the ass for what you did to me, the only thing i'm guilty of is loving you.

[mickleb]

I'm a decent, together, mature person so, to your face, I'll be civil but behind your back?

 

It's like this: WHAT THE F***?!!!!

[moo]

I know later on today you may be coming to town to run your race. I sent that email to you asking you not to come. That was a week ago. I've been NC since, as you know.

 

I indulged myself for the last time with 20 minutes of looking on the running websites and searching the web about you. That was it. I'm back to using the account that has those pages blocked and I plan to keep using this account.

 

You've become so successful in your races in the past few months. You even won one, although not everyone was participating in your race, since they were running the half-marathon instead...so you won by default...big deal.

 

No matter how many races you win, it doesn't make you a better human being. You think races and cars and paperwork are more important than people, but you're wrong.

 

The fact that you can run fast does not indicate you are a good person. I can attest to that, because you are not.

 

You are selfish enough to come to town later on today, maybe even with your gf, but I will be away from that area. I don't want to see you.

 

Today I got anxious, and I did deep breathing instead of sending you an email. I am very proud of myself.

 

Today I figured it out. I understand why you can't stay in love in your relationships. Relationships take effort. They must be nutured. Since you don't put effort into your relationships, it's easy to lose interest. You would have figured that out if you had just taken the time to try to process your breakups instead of running to the next woman a few days after a breakup.

 

You make the same mistake over and over again and you ruin almost everything you touch. I really working on myself to be a better person. I won't drown out my bad behavior by running to another man. I AM and WILL CONTINUE to learn from my mistakes in the relationship.

 

I used to be envious of you...I was in pieces on the floor and you were floating on air...new gf, doing so well in your races and finally a home after a year of homelessness. I was upset that you were not suffering as I was. But I know now that you are nothing to be jealous us. I don't want to be like you...heartless and cruel. I want to put effort into a relationship. I don't want to treat my partner as if he is disposable. That's a terrible way to live and treat your partner.

 

Today makes 7 days of not initiating contact...7 days straight after I broke my winning streak of 3 weeks. I don't want to jepardize my recovery for you. You simply are not worth it. You were not worth the wait. You were not worth it when I met you, and you simply won't be worth it in the future.

 

You ex, the same one that you present as crazy, knew you well, knew your tricks, and knew what a nasty person you were. You presented her like a monster. Gosh, what she and your ex-wife must have gone threw.

 

I'm sad, but I'm stronger. I want a man who will think I'm worth the effort- not one who will toss me aside everytime he as a bad day and for many weeks between those bad days.

 

I now know why you kept me at arms length. I don't know you. I don't want to know you. I won't cut you out of my heart the way you did to me. I'm not that kind of person.

 

I'm in recovery from you. Sometimes I wish I could sanitize my insides because I slept with you. I feel dirty and I wish I could cleanse myself of you. When I think of you, I feel disgusted. I feel disgusted.

 

Good-bye.

[ScarLettIsle]

i just wanna add... ur an assclown!!

[moo]

assclown...

[jb1173]

I am so hurt and disappointed that you would have such little respect for my feelings that you preferred to lie about loving me and that I made you so happy than to have communicated what you were/weren't feeling at the first sign of those feelings. And I feel terribly used because you continued to be (intensely) intimate with me and profess your love for me after you had already made up your mind to leave me. I am blindsided and I did not deserve this.

[moo]

As time goes by I find my anger fading and turning into sadness. I'm just sad. I'm sad because of the way you treated me. I'm sad because of the way you left me. I'm sad that you left me. I'm sad that I allowed you to treat me the way that you did. I'm sad because of the way I acted after you left me.

 

I'm just sad.

[DSM-IV]

As time goes by I find my anger fading and turning into sadness. I'm just sad. I'm sad because of the way you treated me. I'm sad because of the way you left me. I'm sad that you left me. I'm sad that I allowed you to treat me the way that you did. I'm sad because of the way I acted after you left me.

 

I'm just sad.

 

 

You're sad because you disobey your own voice in your head, and go and look at pictures/websites of him despite your better judgment. What the hell were you talking about, you "allowed yourself to indulge for 20 minutes" at looking at him.

 

????

[DustySaltus]

Dear X,

 

I've spent ten of thousands of dollars and traveled the world countless times to be with you. You've told me that you know you have trust issues yet you continued to check my emails. I loved you with all of my heart and soul, wanted you to be my wife. Now I am back in my country wondering where it all went wrong. Ever since you got in contact with my boss and told him what time of person I "really was" I felt like I had my head chopped off after already being dead emotionally. What did you do with the ring? Why do you still have it? Is it because you want to annoy the **** out of me or because of your connection to me and you don't want to completely let go.

 

I wait for the apology from you via email or phone, but it never comes. I think that it may come tomorrow because after all you kept the ring for a reason. Then tomorrow comes and you don't call again. But I won't call you because I know that the ball is in your court. But I loved you so much, I would never sacrifice myseld as much as I did for one person ever. I guess it wasn't enough. If you had trust issues then WHY DID YOU SAY YES WHEN I ASKED YOU TO MARRY ME???? WHY???? How can you put me out there like that? How can we not trust try and find a way to fight through everything? I know you want me to come crawling back and beg you to take me back and live there forever, but I won't let that happen. I can't ever let you have that kind of control over me.

 

But all those times I told you I would never leave you, who would've thought you'd be the one to make me leave? All those things you did to me and I still stuck with you because I thought we were both willing to work at things............AND YOU GAVE UP ON US!

[bluejeanbebe]

why don't you miss me? why haven't I heard from you? did did our relationship mean that little to you? was it really all a lie? was I just some young thing, a way to escape a boring marriage? why didn't you even say goodbye?

 

after 3 years, and then nothing... you are a coward.

[greenparrot]

Hey so great to see you keep texting me.. Especially when I told you that if you cared a little about me you would let me go since you dont want to get back together.

 

Thanks for the "I was thinking all day about you" So what??? you still dont want us back, why the hell do you tell me this<? you chose someone else after our 4 year relationship.

 

Also thank you for being there when I cried, and emailed you long letters. Thanks for that, thanks... You trully were there when I need you the most, just like I was!!!!!!!

 

Go on, Im here crying for you, while youre out kissing him.... I wish you the best anyway. Hope your happy.

[moo]

You're sad because you disobey your own voice in your head, and go and look at pictures/websites of him despite your better judgment. What the hell were you talking about, you "allowed yourself to indulge for 20 minutes" at looking at him.

 

????

 

No. Let me explain...I wasn't looking at his pics on the web. the only reason why I gave myself 20 minutes was because it was the last time I was going research and read about him. That's the only reason why. I've mostly been staying away. I've been pretty strict with myself, but I had decided to read about him one last time. That's why. And it wasn't looking at him. It was reading info about him. NOT looking at his pics, because they are not on the internet as far as I know. I did find pics of him over the weekend. I didn't expect to find them. I was shocked. I thought I had ripped all of his pictures up months ago. When I found the pics, I gave them to my roommate. I looked at them for about 45 seconds and gave them to my roommate to hide from me.

[moo]

Because there were good times too. It's the good times I miss. I miss the good in him.

[DSM-IV]

Because there were good times too. It's the good times I miss. I miss the good in him.

 

Everyone should read this an be able to empathize.

 

We all miss the good. We miss the good in the ones we loved. Unfortunately, that good ISN'T WHO THEY ARE.

 

The people we thought we loved, are dead.

[moo]

A and D that's good for you. However, I think in general- for lots of people, it's still hard even if the relationship had a lot of bad in it. If having a bad relationship would prevent people from missing the person during the breakup, there's a great many people that wouldn't be on this site and wouldn't be in so much pain. Most people aren't 100% bad...I don't think anyone is.

[steelfist9]

I have so much to say to her, but here's what I would say now if given the chance:

 

I can't believe you have hurt me this bad. You said you loved me and would never do this to me, but it has happened and I've accepted it. I just want you to know how hurt I am and how badly you have broken my heart.