Thomas X Forever Posted July 28, 2009 Posted July 28, 2009 Me, I went grocery shopping, did the laundry, cleaned my room and got some pizza just now. Now I'm watching Intervention on A&E. Anyone wanna watch with me? Today hasn't been so bad. I just look back at my first ex who I am over, and I try to associate the one I love, with her. I try to put them next to each other in my mind, and thus, accept she's gone like the first. Although I wouldn't mind talking to the first one again... (even though she has borderline pd. Confirmed). To everyone out there who thinks they'll never get over their ex... I got over my first one in only a year. Although I'm missing my recent ex now, but hell. It does hurt a lot to think about the recent one. Just wanted to say hi to some good people on the board too melissa thornton Caliguy Lorilynn Hope2heal Aloneanddepressed dusty Of course, don't feel bad if you aren't on this list. Because it's not that you suck, it's literally my memory. I can't even remember my dads birthday lol. There are many more people I like, which I will point out when they post So what've you all been doin today to not think of your breakup?
hoping2heal Posted July 28, 2009 Posted July 28, 2009 Ok I hope I still get to answer this, even though I'm not going through a break up. I did some work, went grocery shopping, rented watchmen (waiting for it to get just a little more dark so I can watch it), spent time with my honey, Got a few more scenes for my screenplay and that sums it up so far . What's the intervention epi about?
Aerorobyn Posted July 28, 2009 Posted July 28, 2009 I think I should be on that list. Heh. Today? Talked to/hung out with my best friend for a bit, sulked a little bit, ran my uncle to Game Stop, went to Sonic to get some drinks, downloaded some anger-venting music, and now about to watch a movie with my family... I'm just a tad bit down today. I thought I'd never get over my last ex, but I did--in just a matter of 2ish months. This most recent ex, I know I'll get over him, because I saw him for the coward and manipulator he really was...he never really loved me, as he said he did. I'm just wondering how long it's going to be? I really cared a lot for him, and hoped he did me. I guess not.
hoping2heal Posted July 28, 2009 Posted July 28, 2009 I think I should be on that list. Heh. Today? Talked to/hung out with my best friend for a bit, sulked a little bit, ran my uncle to Game Stop, went to Sonic to get some drinks, downloaded some anger-venting music, and now about to watch a movie with my family... I'm just a tad bit down today. I thought I'd never get over my last ex, but I did--in just a matter of 2ish months. This most recent ex, I know I'll get over him, because I saw him for the coward and manipulator he really was...he never really loved me, as he said he did. I'm just wondering how long it's going to be? I really cared a lot for him, and hoped he did me. I guess not. It's no reflection on you that he didn't care, it really isn't. You're going to be alright. What makes you feel good? Is there something you do really well that gives you a sense of accomplishment? I'm going to go get some excersize in before movie time. Will be back. Ciao bella!
New_life Posted July 28, 2009 Posted July 28, 2009 woke up from a dream about my ex, dreams are the worse. Felt bad, so got the iPhone and came here read posts and felt better. My plan that works now is work like crazy at my job, extra hours, extra paperwork, who cares it removes me from her for 10 hours. Came home, finished painting my room. I'm just lucky if I don't think about her in a lapse of 15 minutes. Life seems so far away right now. I think it's the rejection that makes me think it's love. Hope tomorrow is better.
jqb05443 Posted July 28, 2009 Posted July 28, 2009 I got to work by 715AM and spent the majority of the day online. Couldn't really focus on work. Saw my ex 2 weekends ago. Spent all day saturday together and sunday morning. He booked a trip for us go to to Atlantic City this weekend for 3 days.I can't believe it, i am going to spend three days with him. I can't wait. I hope all goes well. I can't believe he booked it for us. We shall see what happens. I haven't spoken to him since Thursday as he went away for a bachelor party this past weekend. I left work at 5. I went shopping for some new clothes for the trip. Came home, walked the dogs, and then went for an hour walk myself. Talked on the phone with a friend who is having marital problems and now I am on this site and probably going to bed in an hour. Its weird because I was able to get over my ex ex bf of 10 years pretty quickly and we still talk now and i give him advice on his relationships and he on mine and I am sooo ok with that. I remember feeling like my life was over when he left me. I remember feeling like i wanted to kill myself..but I did get over him. My current ex we were together for 3.5 years and its been over 3 months since we have been broken up and I still cry everyday. Its weird how I moved on from a ten year relationship in like a month but this one..i am really having a hard time with. I guess I am hoping things go well in AC and it could be a start to reconciliation. We shall see. Don't want to get my hopes up though
ssj4trunks09 Posted July 28, 2009 Posted July 28, 2009 Woke up at 8 am and went to school. It sucks having school cuz while the teacher is lecturing I begin to day dream and I start thinking about my ex. I ended up txting her cuz I was mad about the things she said last night and all she txted back was ok. I then txted my friend who's been there and has been having patience with me throughout this whole situation and I felt relieved. By 12 I was out of school and at 4 I went to swimming practice, by 6 I was out and at 730 I went to the gym. By 9 I was out and I went to my friends house for about 2 hours and now I'm here. Thinkin bout her again, tryin to keep my mind busy.
boogieboy Posted July 28, 2009 Posted July 28, 2009 I woke up to watch "gone in 60 seconds" then I watched "die hard with a vengeance" then I went on this board. Then I got depressed because I want to work, and meet new people while I work.. I tried to watch Monster Jam on my DVR, but the hard drive crapped out. So I took it to Cablevision, got a new one (lost all my recorded programs) Went to Parents house for some good old home cookin for once. Went straight to school, for a 3 hour class where I lusted after a pretty lady, then during the break she came to walk with me for coffee, I made her laugh alot. Too bad she has kids.... Then I went straight to the strip club. Its amazing how nice naked bodies help me forget my ex... I havent thought about my ex at all today until I got home and went on this board... hmmm, think I should do NC with this message board?
lorilynne Posted July 28, 2009 Posted July 28, 2009 Today was a busy day for me. Very little down time. I woke up & went to work, picked up my summer school paycheck(yeah!), went to the bank, a friend's house, & cheered my friends on as they played volleyball. On the drive home, a song hit me & I teared up let out a sigh & kept on driving! What a great idea to ask what we did, Thomas! My therapist told me to make a list everyday of tasks, even if they are trivial. Thanks for including me on the list. You have helped me TREMENDOUSLY! You're right about thinking about a previous love. I've done that a bit & I try to remember that at one time in the past, I didn't think I'd ever love again, but I did. Glad to see you got so much done, let's all keep up the good work!...oops that sounded like my teacher voice! hee, hee!
moo Posted July 28, 2009 Posted July 28, 2009 I listened to music, exercised, and entered my pics into an online album- flickr, that took a long time because my computer is slow and I have 91 pics. I also worked on applications, told jokes and laughed with my roommate.
joseffrost Posted July 28, 2009 Posted July 28, 2009 I went to work, procrastinated, made some purchases and plans for my upcoming holiday, got a text from the Lily Allen lookalike I met this weekend, had grilled fish for dinner, played guitar, listened to Leonard Cohen and The Rapture, sat outside drinking tea and chatting to my flatmate, watched a Jim Jarmusch film and slept like a baby. Not bad for a Monday with a mild hangover!
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