LostInLimbo Posted July 28, 2009 Posted July 28, 2009 Well, after my Ex had left me a month ago, for the third time in 3 yrs and me welcoming her back all the time, except this time, I just recently I started getting bombarded with Text Messages, awhile back I broke the NC Rule, and then I got burned from her when she gave me the impression she wanted to work things out, I got a message saying We Are Done..... Now just recently (last week) I have been getting Bombarded by Text Messages from her, and even a few from her daughter (age 11) finally to the point saying if I don't call her, she is coming to see me (she never did), this week, I get 2 Text Messages Late Sunday night, where I finally broke NC, felt I had to and said What is it you want from me?, I did get a reply from her stating, I just wanted to text you and talk to you, Like I used to but I won't message you anymore, to that I said, when you left, so did that and all I can say is I wish you well and respect the fact this is what you wanted, she replied, Thank You and Take care of yourself, so my last text to her was Thank You, I will.. I have never put a close on my relationship with her, all 3 times, allowing her back in, until this time, where I to pretty much said good bye Any Thoughts on this? or did I just get sucked in again (meaning, blowing her ego up and texting her) LiL
hoping2heal Posted July 28, 2009 Posted July 28, 2009 It sounds like it's done now. Let it be that way, why was her 11 year old daughter texting you? People should never drag their children into their personal dating life, god that's sad. This woman doesn't strike me all too much as someone who has her ducks in a row. Be glad it's over.
Author LostInLimbo Posted July 28, 2009 Author Posted July 28, 2009 It sounds like it's done now. Let it be that way, why was her 11 year old daughter texting you? People should never drag their children into their personal dating life, god that's sad. This woman doesn't strike me all too much as someone who has her ducks in a row. Be glad it's over. Thanks Hoping 2 Heal, I have been through this several times with her and it seems when just the right amount of time goes by or to long, I get that text message, which at times I think this time maybe no different, as for the kids, I think your right, it shouldn't happen, it only happened because I wasn't answering and she knows my love for her kids, which, I still don't even know if it was actually her daughter or someone messin with my head more. Thanks Again LiL
hoping2heal Posted July 28, 2009 Posted July 28, 2009 Thanks Hoping 2 Heal, I have been through this several times with her and it seems when just the right amount of time goes by or to long, I get that text message, which at times I think this time maybe no different, as for the kids, I think your right, it shouldn't happen, it only happened because I wasn't answering and she knows my love for her kids, which, I still don't even know if it was actually her daughter or someone messin with my head more. Thanks Again LiL That's my point, she knows your love of her kids..it's never okay to use your children to manipulate for you. NEVER and in my experience of knowing the women who have done that, let's just say not stable, not mature, not suitable for a relationship.
Author LostInLimbo Posted July 28, 2009 Author Posted July 28, 2009 That's my point, she knows your love of her kids..it's never okay to use your children to manipulate for you. NEVER and in my experience of knowing the women who have done that, let's just say not stable, not mature, not suitable for a relationship. Thanks H2H, you use the words Not Stable, its funny, thats what my councillor used for her as well, when she found out she gave up the right to custody of her children and only see's them on weekends.
ssj4trunks09 Posted July 28, 2009 Posted July 28, 2009 Sounds like you did the right thing. But I'm expecting her to txt you or call you back soon. Do NC again and if you do reply back, that mean you're just getting sucked in again.
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